Ashley - posted on 09/06/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
My husband doesn't want anymore kids He's happy with what we. Have and is ready to get a vasectomy at any time. I on the other hand am very happy with our children but can't let go of loosing the possibilities of more. We've already decided that no matter what we want if God gives us more we will be happy with it. We've discussed that he will wait to get the vasectomy until our youngest starts school (in 4 years) and I'm okay with that. I know that no matter what we want or do, if God wants us to have anymore there's no stopping him and we will both gladly accept 20 kids if He wants. I just can't seem to let go of the possibilities that more children would bring. Anyone else have/had a hard time too?