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Chevarn - posted on 10/27/2009 ( 39 moms have responded )

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im going through a difficult time with my husban, its affecting my little boy.



i seriously feel like asking him for a divorce.



please pray for me i dont know what to do

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Josslyn - posted on 05/06/2010

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Goosebumps Goosebumps and more goosebumps reading these prayers!

Jesus, I pray you lay your mighty hand upon this family, You are the way and the light and everything and anything is possible through you! Show them the way Lord, they need you now and forever more. May they be blessed to an everlasting life.

Amen!!

KIMBERLY STAFFORD - posted on 05/05/2010

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i'm in the same boat! please pray for me too. i gave it to the lord and i'm leaving it there and i no in jesus name that this situation will be fixed. just pray that jesus has fixed it and claim it in jesus name..its so hard because i've been with my husband for almost 15 yrs and kaden is 4 yrs old and he is verbaly mean to him and i've have already gotten to the point that i tell him hey u dont talk to him like that - i dont take it from him anymore. he has made kaden to were he dont wont to potty,mind,& listen...but bro greg casto with bro.tl lowery global foundation told me to lay it down-give it to god and thanlk him and praise him. i'm trying so u just pray and i'll pray too!

Sara - posted on 11/02/2009

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First me, my family and my church are praying for you. Second I just went through this and from experience I say Keep Praying. I also recommend The Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian. I also really like the movie FIREPROOF. My husband and I still have things going on that want to separate us, but we are closer than ever. Our love has been renewed and I pray for even better for you and your family. PS Our 4yr old is fine, but if we had not keep trying and split up she would not be. I don't presume to know the answers to your situation, but God does. God Bless you and your family.

Misty - posted on 11/02/2009

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Dear Father God, I would like to thank you so much for all of the blessings that you have given us. Please be with Chevarn and her family right now. They need your guidance and blessings in this difficult situation. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

Mary - posted on 11/02/2009

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I will be praying for you and your family. Keep your faith. I know this is hard when things get tough. Just keep believing that God will do his will and you will be at peace with the decision that he has made.
Your friend in Christ! Mary

KIMBERLY STAFFORD - posted on 11/01/2009

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IN JESUS NAME TOUCH THIS LADY AND CHILD AND HELP HER TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT BUT IN JESUS NAME WE PRAY THAT YOU WOULD ALSO TOUCH THE HUSBAND, IN JESUS NAME .......CLAIM IT IN THE NAME

Kimberly Donovan - posted on 11/01/2009

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Chevarn, I am a testimony as to what God can do in a failing marriage. I have been married 18 years and 6 months ago my husband just came to me out of the blue and ask me to forgive him for the way he had been treatig me. There is always hope. Never give up.

Kim

Joice - posted on 11/01/2009

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i've been there, where you are now it affected my four kids. i believe it was for the better, for me. i will pray for you and your family. i was always told that god don't like divorce and its not a great idea to divorce, for me i prayed and asked god to guide me through this diffcult decision. my advice to you is to pray and ask god to guide you also.

Chaitra - posted on 11/01/2009

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I am going through a difficult time as well with my husband and feel the same way like getting a divorce.....read your bible and pray for your husband and your marriage....ask God to show you what to do to make sure your doing the right thing....I will be praying for you as well.

Toni - posted on 10/31/2009

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Lord, you are our shepherd. Help this wonderful lady and her husband find common ground in love; and let them understand that working out their difficulties needs to be a priority for the beautiful baby boy you have blessed them with. Help them to put aside their differences and feel that blessing that you bestowed upon them; help them to nuture him; show him the love which he was created; and that loving that which you have created is all that matters. In Your Name we pray...Amen.

Nina - posted on 10/31/2009

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I feel for you, Chevarn. I too have simply had enough. My husband and I are separated so that we can both clear our heads and come together stronger than before. I am glad you came to the Circle of Moms for support. You definitely need support during this time. Just keep praying and we will keep praying. Remember that all things happen according to God's plan, not ours.

Linda - posted on 10/31/2009

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Our precious Lord, we know that you see the hurt and the stuggles in our lives and that You care. We come before you asking that you will touch the lives of those in this family. I pray that you will give Chevarn wisdom in how to handle this situation, we know that you hate divorce and so I pray that you will bind this family together and that it will be stronger than it has ever been before. I pray that they have a desire to seek you and want to know you even more. Give her peace in this relationship, restore their joy in one another and in You. Thank you Lord for hearing our prayer, in Jesus name. Amen

Rachel - posted on 10/30/2009

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Lord, I thank you that Chevarn is willing to come to you in search of wisdom. We know that you can do much in a willing heart. Let your presence fill her room and calm her heart. Help her to see Your plan and will in all that is happening. We know that we see in part, but you see fully.

Help her to see the great, overwhelming love you have for her, her husband and her dear son! You are with all three of them. Where she needs to grow and change, guide her along that path. Where her husband needs to grow and change, guide him along that path. Help each of them to seek you with all their hearts, minds, strength and souls. Help them to draw near to you, letting go of their hurts, anger and fears into your capable hands.

Lord, guide them toward the solution that you have planned for them! I know this situation hurts your tender heart and you would like nothing more than for this dear couple to be able to rejoice in the love and shared sacrifice of their marriage. But, right now it is really hard. Give Chevarn wisdom to know what to do, when to say something to her husband and when to just let it go and trust you; help her to completely commit her husband and son to your care, trusting you to work in their lives and hearts, protecting that which needs to be protected and refining that which needs refined.

Chevarn also needs to be surrounded with good people, hand-picked by you, to encourage her and uplift her during this challenging time. I ask, Lord, that you would raise these people up (if you haven't already) to support her without judgement or advice that goes against your will for her life. Help her to be plugged into a good community so that the enemy cannot reach her or her family.

Lord, thank you for this difficult time that she is going through because I know you are going to help her grow and experience you in a new and deeper way! She will look back on this and be amazed at how you moved in her life. Help her remember that this is but a walk in the dark valley - the night always passes and joy comes with the morning. May she come to a new understanding of your peace and joy with each and every day she seeks your face.

I pray all these things in the precious name of our Savior, Lord Jesus. I give you all the glory for what you have done, are doing and plan to do in your precious daughter's life. Amen.


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Chevarn,
For some reason, my heart was really stirred for you. I know God has a plan for you, even though this is a painful and very difficult time for you. I don't pretend to know what that plan is, but I do believe He will reveal it as you seek his face. What I do know, is that it doesn't matter how bad things get, God is always there and is always able to make something good come out of the bad in our lives - I can speak this from my very Job-like experiences over the past nearly three years. God is good, our very present help in times of trouble, and our light in the darkness. I wish you much joy, perseverance and hope for the future God has planned for you. May you rest in your Father's arms.

Your sister in Christ,
Rachel

Desiree - posted on 10/30/2009

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Quoting chevarn:

need prayer

im going through a difficult time with my husban, its affecting my little boy.

i seriously feel like asking him for a divorce.

please pray for me i dont know what to do


 

Desiree - posted on 10/30/2009

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Prayer changes things. Pray for others that have a heathly marriage and healthy children. Pray for everything outside of your situation and watch how things turn around for u. Get under some good word and read your bible. Teach it to your children at a early age so they can learn the power of prayer. Also get the movie fire proof and watch it with your husband. After that you and him need to create a journal for the strengthening of the marriage.

Dorothy - posted on 10/30/2009

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Let God be in control!! Pray without ceasing!! He will never leave you, your husband, or your son, nor will lhe forsake you!! I will be praying for you!!

Dorothy - posted on 10/30/2009

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Quoting chevarn:

need prayer

im going through a difficult time with my husban, its affecting my little boy.

i seriously feel like asking him for a divorce.

please pray for me i dont know what to do


 

Millie - posted on 10/30/2009

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Lord, fill our husbands with the fear of the Lord and give him wisdom for every decision he makes. May they reverence You and Your ways and seek to know Your truth. Give them discernment to make decisions based on Your revelation. Help them to make godly choices and keep them from doing anything foolish. Take foolishness out of his heart and enable him to recognize the error and avoid it. Open his eyes to clearly see the consequences of anticipated behavior.
I pray that they will listen to godly counselors and not be a man who is unteachable. Give them strength to reject the counsel of the ungodly and hear Your counsel above all others. I declare that although "there are many plans in a man's heart, nevertheless the LORD'S counsel--that will stand" (Proverbs 19:21). Instruct him even as he is sleeping (Psalm 16:7), and in the morning, I pray he will do what's right rather than follow the leading of his own flesh, I know the wisdom of this world is foolishness with You, Lord (1 Corinthians 3:19). May he not buy into it, but keep his eyes on You and have ears to hear Your voice. (praying wife..stormie omartian)..Lord,
thy will be done..in Jesus name we pray..Amen.

Twanda - posted on 10/30/2009

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Hi Chevarn

I believe strongly in prayer and you and your family are in my prayers for now own. But along with prayer I believe in fasting, and after you fast wait on your answer. There are several types of fast if you want to know the different ones let me know.

Carol - posted on 10/30/2009

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Chevran
I am obviously not only long winded in person but also thru my fingers! :>)I pray this leads you to the truth! Matthew 11:28 My beginning and personal favorite! "Come to ME. ALL YOU who are weary and heavy burdened. I will give YOU rest. Place MY yoke Upon YOU and LEARN from ME for I AM gentle and humble IN heart and YOU will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light. Sign me up for that club! Can I get an AMEN!

Carol - posted on 10/30/2009

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Chevrarn
I am raising you up in prayer! First, if you are going through physical abuse I urge you to get out and get help but start with prayer and ask for God to lead you to where you need to be! God can bring us out of anything if we apply his words, even abuse for you and the perpetrator. I don't know where U are in life. Young/old? Newly married? Your walk with God? We all have different stages and seasons which makes us different. But we all have a new beginning to which we have in common! Marriage is so difficult because we as humans harbor so much junk! We are so far removed from the truth and we totally rely on our emotions and backgrounds to get us through life. We can certainly make a mess of our lives & our childrens lives. Hence the cycle continues! I pray that you work it out for all concerned. Alot of people expect this ooey gooey feeling all the time in marriage. It comes & it goes. One day you'll wake up and think...Who are you and what are you doing in my bed?! We go to bed angry then wonder why we get up angry! Do not let the sun go down on your anger! & You have to speak the truth in love!! I made this mistake or misunderstanding with being submissive. The bible says Wives Submit to your husbands, not wives be submissive!?!
We have to do right even when he is doing wrong. We have to speak up, tender hearted, in truth, and in love. You can't change any one only your reaction to it & they will change thru you and your relationship with God. God and his words must be the #1 priority in your life for change and blessings! Everything else falls behind! Chip Ingram has a series Love, Sex, and Lasting Relationships. I strongly recommend it. LOTE.org
Isaiah 61 I ask you to read. Pray 1st that God will open your heart and your mind to what He is trying to tell you. Remember that we all have a new beginning and every minute, every hour, every day is new! You can not change the past but we can only learn and grow from it!! Please find strength for all concerned. Failure is never final but failing to try? Well.. it's just failure. Love thru Christ! Carol

Beth - posted on 10/29/2009

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That is a real hard situation. May God's love surround you all. Prayers on the way!

Trina - posted on 10/29/2009

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I will be praying for you and your family. I don't know your situation but God does, he will bring you threw it which ever way it goes. Just keep praying.

Cynthia - posted on 10/28/2009

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I am in Beth Moores Bibles study {It's tough being a Woman} I know God is a faithful God. He knows how hard it is for us Women. Trust Him with all your cares and his Timing.... That is a tough one. God Bless you and Your little boy Chevarn. God does'nt want or like Divorce we need to pray for restoration...... Sister in Christ.....

Lesley - posted on 10/28/2009

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Have you read, "Loving Solutions" ? google that. It is helpful and comforting, in the meantime, I am sending up a prayer right now.

Chevarn - posted on 10/28/2009

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Quoting chevarn:

need prayer

im going through a difficult time with my husban, its affecting my little boy.

i seriously feel like asking him for a divorce.

please pray for me i dont know what to do



thank you to everybody, that is keeping me and my family in your prayers.



 

SHAWNEEN - posted on 10/27/2009

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God Is Mighty and Awesome, Seek Him First And He Will Deliver You, Pray For Your Husband As Well, I Will Lift You and Your Family Up In Prayer As Well As The Other Moms Here. You Are Not Alone. Have You Seen The Movie Fireproof? If Not or If So You and Your Husband Should Watch It TOGETHER. Buy The Book "Love Dare", based on the Movie and Follow It. Lord Watch Over Chevarn And Her Family, Lord, Lord You Said What You Put Together Let No One Tear Apart. Protect Their Marriage and Keep It Holy In Your Name Jesus I Pray.........................Amen! GOD BLESS YOU CHEVARN AND I WILL CONTINUE TO PRAY!

Jennifer - posted on 10/27/2009

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Chevarn,
Our God is El Roi - the God who sees. He sees every hurt, every tear, every joy....everything. He see your situation and will answer your call! I will join my prayers with others for His widsom and guidance and peace to overflow you during this difficult time.

Kelli - posted on 10/27/2009

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I'll say a prayer for you. I've been there myself. I was just talking with a friend about this the other day. If you want to keep your marriage together, pray for you and your husband and God's intervention in your lives. Also God has given us many wise Christian authors that have written books on marriage, I suggest finding some good ones. One of my favorites is the Power of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian.

Amy - posted on 10/27/2009

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I will be praying for you and your husband as well as your little boy. What a difficult time.

Heather - posted on 10/27/2009

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I will pray for you. I always recommend reading 1 Corinthians 7, it helped me a lot during my divorce. But I'm not going to tell you that you will get the same peace from it that I did. Every situation is different. My husband was cheating on me, and he was the one that filed for divorce. I don't know the details of your marriage, but God does. He will never leave you or forsake you. Keep trusting in him.

Jeremiah 29:12
Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.

Jill - posted on 10/27/2009

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been there... remember God is love.... pray for your husband... pray for yourself that God will carry you through this trial.... he is faithful.... the less i engage in a battle with my husband the less he wants to fight... don;t raise your voice ... Jesus never did.... stay calm and state your case....

Dionne - posted on 10/27/2009

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Lord, we thank you for being a God that answers prayer. Who knows what we need before we even ask. We thank you that you are with Chevarn and will provide her with wisdom and guidance. Help her to see her husband as you do. Not as he is, as he will be. Give her strength to endure this struggle. To fight this battle on her knees seeking you for direction. Remind her that all things work together for good and that you are our mightly deliverer. Help her to see what you are trying to teach her through this situation and to lean on you. I thank you that you are at work in this situation. Please protect her little boy. Children are a blessing and a gift from you. I know that through this you Lord will be glorified and this will be another square in Chevarn's testimony quilt. In Jesus Name! AMEN

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