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Cindy - posted on 11/24/2010 ( 25 moms have responded )

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I really need prayer. My heart feels like it is being torn in two. My son just told us that he is splitting with his wife. They have a 18 month old son. I love them all so much and my daughter-in-law has become my daughter. She loves him and does not want this but the hurt goes so deep on things that have happened that he is really struggling. He is a Christian but I really feel Satan pulling hard at him right now. She is planning on doing the 40 day Love Dare. Please pray that our wonderful Lord will work in both of their lives and restore their marriage as that is what it is going to take. Pray that I can give control to him as I struggle with this and I know that.

I pray that this makes sense as I have been and continue to shed many tears.

Cindy

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Amy - posted on 12/01/2010

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Cindy, I am praying for you and your family. May God bless you all with understanding, and the ability to accept His plan, regardless of what it is, and may your family find peace, love, strength, and happiness in Him, and in each other. I hope all comes out well. God is with you. Never forget that His presence can save you from any situation. Love to your family.

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Cindy - posted on 12/09/2010

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.Thank you all so much for the prayers. Things are still VERY rocky . They talk but never listen to what the other says. There are times I really hate technology as it has made it to easy for people not to actually communicate. TO me texting and messaging is not always a good thing. And that is what they seem to like to do. Anyway, my daughter-in-law is living with a friend of hers right now and my son is in their house. Her parents bought the house for them and they have been paying them back so now her parents want the title to the house so I am afraid they want to throw my son out. By the way we live in Montana so it is cold here and he really has no where to go. He could move back here but we live 90 miles away and he has his son, his job, and he is a volunteer firefighter-EMT and has been offered a full time paid firefighter postition that will be open in about 6-9 months so that is very hard for him to leave all that. Her mom is an alcoholic and her dad is a recovering alcoholic. When she was younger she was ,in my mind, raped by her mom's cousin who is old enough to be her dad. She blames herself as she allowed it to happen but at the age of 12-14 with 2 alcoholic parents she was looking for LOVE and he used that to his advantage. I know all about this but her parents do not as she doesn't want her family to know. This has caused some of the problems as this just came out when she had her mental breakdown., She ended up at the ER last week as she totally lost it. Her parents are now angry at my son and blaming him for her mental breakdown. SHe has admitted to me that she has been mentally depressed since way before she met my son. Her mom does not believe in depression and that she needs to "Snap" out of it. My son told her parents that she took a knife at him and that she tried cutting herself but they just call him a liar. He is so lost on what to do. The DR's have adjusted her depression meds and she starts counseling next week so I am excited and happy about that. Please continue to pray for them both and my beautiful grandson as well. She told me that I am her mommy and that her mom is her Mother. I am glad that she know that I am here for her but it saddens me to see the rift between her and her mom. In the hospital last week, her mom blew up at her and told her that she just needs to get over it and grow up. Pray for her mom as well. Thank you all again for all the prayers nad please continue.

Krissy - posted on 12/08/2010

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Father God in the name of Jesus, I pray that you would give this family peace. Fill every void in their lives. You said in your word what God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. No weapon that is formed shall be able to prosper in the name of Jesus. Amen

Patricia - posted on 12/02/2010

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Dear Cindy,
I myself is having the same problem with my husband, and the best thing i always seek and ask God's loving mercy. What men can't do God can do, to patch up everything. Prayer really works. Loving Father, we all mothers are humbly asking your mercy for all the families in this world to protect from any work of evil especially, the plan of evil to destroy the marriage of husband and wife. Give all the husbands a pure heart and a clear mind so that they will rebuke all the temptations that they will encounter. Guide us all mothers, that we will have a strong spirit so that we will always come to you and pray in every struggle we will meet. We pray this in the name of your son Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.

Milla - posted on 12/02/2010

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Cindy I would like to share a testimony with you of what God did in my brothers marriage. They had been married for a few years, both christians, his wife got into drugs somehow, she was spending all their money, my brother is a very hard worker, had no time to mess around, just kept working to make end meet. She might have even cheated on him, and finally he was fed up, took his 2 year old son and started the divorce. My family were all like yeah, he has grounds to divorce her, leave her.

But I was puzzled, about to accept their view, then i said Lord what was that inner knowledge you gave me at their wedding that they are meant for each other, that you are blessing their union? And God answered me and said, for such a time as this I gave you my word, that the marriage is blessed, they are meant to be together, and I want you to resist the devil and he will flee. Thats when I warred in the spiritual realm for their family when I realized that the devil has done a work in their family and is trying to brake them up. His wifes family were all praying, and I prayed and you know like the word says, when you pray the will of God, believe with your heart, you will see it. So then I resisted the devil and said you cannot have this family, God's will is for them to stay together and be a loving successfull family.

At that time I got to talk to my sister and law and speak into her life, thanks to prayers of her parents as well, God miraculously touched her, she repented and was freed from the addiction. Also she found out she was pregnant with their second child.

When I spoke to my brother, he had been so hurt by her, and did not want to get back with her. And I said to him, you have the reasons to leave, but think of the consequences, you will be alone, and your precious children will be torn between you and their mom, none of you win. I believe it will be more blessed for you to forgive her and give her a chance, and give your children the love of a mother and a father.

God is always faithful! God blessed them and gave them the grace to forgive and get back together. They moved out of town as my brother was transfered to another location, and now 2 years later, their relationship is better and stronger than ever. They have a beautiful family, their son is 4.5, daughter 14 mos and they just had another little girl. I had visited them this summer, and I almost cried happy tears seing them together and happy.

Thank you Lord for your wonderful miracle working power to restore and make things new!

I pray that the Lord by his wonder working power work a miracle in the life of your children, restore them, give them the grace to forgive each other and give each other a chance, just like god gives us many chances and does not give up on us. This is where we are tested when things get tough, help them Lord to be faithful, loving and patient with one another! I speak healing and restoration into their lives, in the Wonderful name of Jesus!

Believe and don't loose heart!!!

Linda - posted on 12/02/2010

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saton loves to pull familys apart been there ,did not work with us ,I swear by the power of jesus,it should stop,have faith pray alot

Kathryn - posted on 12/02/2010

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Jesus, You see this desperate need and we know that Satan hates unity and despises marriages because that is the pattern for the church. I come against the forces of evil that are attacking this marriage and ask for deliverance for this husband and give strength and wisdom to this wife. Bless this union and surround them with your warring angels. Protect the children as they are gifts from You..
Thank you Jesus... Amen....
from Bishop's wife of Pentecostal UPC....

Danielle - posted on 12/01/2010

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praying for your family. God bless and strengthen you and your daughter in law! God is faithful! My husband divorced me and God restored our marriage 3 years later. He is faithful!

Kenyatta - posted on 12/01/2010

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I pray right now in the name of Jesus that your son's marriage will be restored. I ask for God to heal his hurt and soften his heart. I bind satan and his evil tactics. Greater is He who is your son than he that is in the world. Keep us posted.

Sylvia - posted on 12/01/2010

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Oh Cindy,

There isn't much you can do except pray. I can understand how he fills as I have been in the very same position, on more than one occation. December 9th will be my 11th anniversary and there were many times when i was sooo wounded and hurt that I didn't think I would ever get to a place of forgiveness. It isn't an easy place to be in. I would encourage your son to truely seek the Lord during this time and ask God to reveal to him ways that he can still love her inspite of the situation. It fills like his whole world has been distroyed, God can will sustain him through this time. He has to find a way to love her in this place he is in because he has a child to think about. I had to ask the lord to show me how to love my husband thru the pain because ,even though he is the step-parent to my child, he is the only father my childs have ever really known. God is good and faithful and He will provide the grace needed for your son to go through this time and not harden his heart to the love that is still in his life. I will pray that God gives you the strength to step back and rest in Him and know that He is God. Praying your son will walk in love and forgiveness, not just for himself but for his child also.

many blessings, Sylvia

Donna - posted on 12/01/2010

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so encouraged to hear that he is willing to do the love dare! that is huge! I will be keeping this in prayer. I believe satan works hard to destroy relationships, all kinds, all of the time. when I started to realize this in my own marriage, I began to fight satan with the truth of God's word instead of fighting with my husband! I will pray that God not only restores your son's marriage, but that your son will be a witness to others! I will also pray for you, Cindy, your love and encouragement will be vital! God Bless!

Pamela - posted on 12/01/2010

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Abba, Father. Most Holy and Praiseworthy God. Only You know what is needed to help this family. Please heal their pain or use it to create a stronger bond as they come to lean on You. Grant those around them wisdom and patience. Please send someone into their lives to aid them in this painful time. I ask you this in the name of Your most Blessed Son, Christ Jesus, the Healer.

Mary - posted on 12/01/2010

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Dearest Cindy, do not loose heart! God is greater than all these things. He is more than able to accomplish what concerns you today. He who began a good work in your son's life is faithful to complete it. Be strong and of good courage and God will strengthen your heart. Trust in The Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will bring this to pass. Those that put the hope in Him will never ever be ashamed. Peace & love, Mary

Maggie - posted on 11/30/2010

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Praying for you and i believe that the Lord who brought them together will bind them with codes of love that cannot be broken. May the Lord strengthen you all.

Cara - posted on 11/30/2010

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In Prayer God will hear and will come into their lives,and work like he has never worked before. I will pray for you and your family

Edith - posted on 11/29/2010

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Will rem you and your family in prayer,also pray for me to get finances for my wedding

Barb - posted on 11/28/2010

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Father God,

I ask at this time for your direct guidance in the lives of this family. I beseech your wisdom to prevail in the hearts of this young couple. Father I pray for the sorrow in Cindy's heart. Father God I pray for understanding, patience, and forgiveness for and from each other. Father I pray for just the right words at just the right time, spoken with just the perfect tone of voice so that Your will be done in all of this. Father I pray for courage for Cindy. Father I pray for all selfishness be put aside, hurts healed or mending, and love to abound. Father I pray for unconditional love for each soul represented here. Father You know what we need before we ask it,so I ask that when the words won't come and the focus is weak, Father please send Your loving spirit to intercede on Cindy's behalf in prayer and lead her to all You have planned and purposed in her life and her children's lives. Thank You Lord for answering this prayer in advance. Thank You Lord for moms like Cindy who have the courage to ask for prayers. In all we do, say, and act Lord, we do in Your Name. Through Your Son, Jesus, Amen.

Linda - posted on 11/27/2010

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We will pray for this marriage and for wisdom for both you and your daughter in law. "If anyone lacks wisdom let him ask of God who gives liberally" (James 1). God is able.

Michell - posted on 11/26/2010

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Will say a prayer; went through the same with my brother and his wife! The have 3&4 yr old boys! God is mightier and good will prevail!

Anne - posted on 11/25/2010

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Father God Please be in this family's lives. Holy Spirit Comfort and Protect this family as only you can do. Help Cindy to use wisdom and Your Guidance in any thing she says to her son. Give her a Peace That Passes All Understanding. In Jesus Nam Amen.

Cindy I will continue to Pray with you for your family.

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