Penny - posted on 01/12/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am 43 with 8 children ages 23, 18, 11, 9, 6, and triplets that are 3. We just have left their dad who was becoming abusive. Now all my 11 year old and 9 year want to do is fight. They also do not want to do chores, because they have not had to before how to get them to stop fighting and do chores.
I am at a loss.