Sarah - posted on 08/12/2010 ( 20 moms have responded )
So as I mentioned before, i called the cops on my mother. Since this time she has done everything she can to avoid my husband and i. if we contacted her or my sister (who still lives at home) she'd demand that we leave her alone or she'd literally run and hide. eventually my sister told me that my mother missed the kids and would like to spend time with them. i informed her that i didnt agree with or appreciate mom's behavior so until i got an apology and she admited that what she did was wrong i didnt want her around the kids. 1) because i dont want my children to think that sort of behavior is ok and 2) although highly unlikely, i'd like to think she would learn that her behavior was wrong.
Today i got a text message "i miss you and i'm sorry i entered your home against your will but i was mad you called the cops on me, i thought we had a better relation than that"
i prayed because right now my heart is hard towards her and i'd like to just ignore her. and although i'd like to aire my grievences to her i know it wouldnt make a difference. so i just need a lil input on how to respond. thanks!!