Pat - posted on 10/23/2010 ( 44 moms have responded )
Oh, i need the prayers and wisdom of Godly women. My daughter told me thursday night my husband had molested her 3 yrs ago. (she woke up and his had was down there). as far as she remembers, it was one time. there was other inappropriate stuff like back rubs with skin contact..but she asked him to stop cuz it made her uncomfortable, and he did. I packed his stuff and told him he needed to leave while i think. i know in my head the right and best thing to do is divorce him (we have a 3 yr old and 20 mnth old together) to protect everyone even though it is not ongoing. He is begging forgivness, wants to keep the family together... i cant imagine life without him and i feel sick that i care more about my loss and the babies not having a daddy than standing by my daughter. I will do whats right by her, but need prayer and support to get the courage to ask husband to stay gone. he thinks that through lots of prayer we can work this all out.... i have a friend who is mandated to report him if i dont, so i dont think i have choice. AM I JUST SICK FOR EVEN WANTING HIM AROUND??? i am trying to be mad that he betrayed me and her and all im crying over is a future without him....please i need godly angry righteousness prayed my way...thanks ladies...