Sonya - posted on 08/24/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
My husband and I have been married not quite a year. We never got a "honey moon" period, because as soon as we told my stepson's biomom, she started some shenanigans. While part of me feels very cheated, another part of me knew that this would happen.
Needless to say that things have been very tough for us because of stunts and pranks pulled by the biomom. Now, even when she seems cooperative, I'm terrified that she's actually secretly gearing up to pull her next set of stunts. I recognize this fear and worry as sin and confess it. I ask God to help me with it, as well.
Do any of you find yourselves constantly wondering what the biomom is going to do next? Do you worry about reminding your husband of his XW? Do you worry what the biomom is going to say when you have to discipline the child(ren) instead of his/her/their father? How do you deal with that fear? The insecurities?