Anna - posted on 03/15/2009 ( 12 moms have responded )
Hi, we have two beautiful babies.... My daughter just turned two last week and my son is 9 1/2 months old.... I LOVE being a mommy!!! My relationship with my husband is a kinda lacking..... We have ABSOLUTELY no time for each other.... When we are out together with out the kids things are awesome like they used to be... But when we are home with the two of them its like we are at each others throats and fighting more than I would like too.... How do we balance or find common ground that when we are home and not out we still like each other? Does anyone else have these kinda problems? And we do still love each and want to be together because we are already talking about another baby... But we have to fix us first before we add another baby into the mix right? Or am I just crazy?
I mean date nights are great, but I don't wanna take advantage of family and finding a sitter that wants to watch 2 that are so close together has become a task. I guess I never thought of that... If anyone has any advice, opinions or comments I am all ears... Thank you everyone in advance for taking the time to read this..... :)