Heather - posted on 03/13/2009 ( 4 moms have responded )
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Ok so my ss has been sick on and off for the last few weeks. Guess who has had to take off to take him to the dr? That's right me!! So the other day she calls my husbands cell and leaves a message saying "by the way tell Heather she needs to take A to get glasses" Can you believe this??? She can't even take her own son the the dr. I text her the other day to tell her I was taking him to see if he had a hernia. She knows very well that this takes surgery to fix. Did we get a phone call or anything to see what happened? No. I text her yesterday to tell her that I needed her to call me because I needed to pick my son up and she was late getting A. She never called. But yet she got the message telling her to pick him up at my friends house. I had Parent teacher conferences yesterday. I asked the teacher if they had heard from her or if she had made an appointment. Of course not and she didn't even ask how he was doing at all. She is getting worse and worse and I am just absolutely losing my patience. We had to go buy A a toothbrush and toothpaste for her house because he didn't have one there. Mind you when she was with her last Boyfriend (3 months ago) we bought one and she didn't bother to take it to the new ones house. He goes there on the weekends for three days and she can't buy him a $2 toothbrush? Really? But she has the money to get her nails done every two weeks, tan every day, and keep her hair done. She never buys him clothes just takes ours. She bought him some for Christmas this year and didn't even know what size to get. She bought them to small and never took them back to get the right size. I am trying so hard to get my husband to go for full custody but he just says A loves his mom and he would be angry with us. Am I wrong when I say we need to do whats right even if it upsets our kids? I would think he would get it later in life. He's already starting to see. he told me the other day he doesn't think his mom loves him as much as I do. I mean come on. Help please
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