Jessica - posted on 11/17/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
ok so my husbands sister is young (she is only 23) and she has had issues concieving. she lost 5 babies before she finally carried her first baby full term through ivf. she now has 2 kids aged 2 and 3 months. the issue is my husband and i fell with our first child a yr before she managed to concieve and keep the baby successfully. she was very jealous and went about trying to stop us having anything to do with my husbands parents and siblings. my in laws live 400km from us. her and her husband moved to live near them, we were considering doing the same. when she found out about this she went and slapped us with a domestic violence order. she claimed we had been stalking her (from 400km away! ) and got her mother (who doesnt like me) to do up affidavits supporting her claims that her brother physically assulted her. these were all lies but as we missed the 2nd hearing the order was approved and now we have a dvo against our name for the next 2 yrs. she did this so that we could not move near the family and the sadt hing is her family fell for her lies. her kids see their grandparents every other day and our daughter and my kids (i have 3 from precious marriage, however hubby has adopted them!) do not even recieve christmas or birthday cards. this seems so unfair, any suggestions?