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Ex Wife & Sister in Law on Facebook - How to Handle?

Holly - posted on 12/22/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Ex Wife has been divorced from my husband for 5 years and has NO children with him. Since our marriage and birth of our first child 2 years ago, she joined FB and constantly writes on my sister in law's wall "hey sistah! love you miss u" my sister in law is just as guilty and always responds with "miss you too, come visit!" ive even seen that the ex still goes out to lunch with my mother-n-law and sister in law. I've kept my mouth shut because we live in separate states and only see his family sporadically but I'm totally disgusted by this. Should I keep staying quiet or say something? My sister in law is nice to me but lets just say I wouldnt want to start a fight w her...

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Melissa - posted on 04/18/2013

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I have these same issues too. I'm stupid though because
I emailed one of his exs the other day because she keeps posting up
the sisters wall. His sister rung me and told me to stop being insecure I felt
like such an ediot :(

Melissa - posted on 04/18/2013

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I have these same issues too. I'm stupid though because
I emailed one of his exs the other day because she keeps posting up
the sisters wall. His sister rung me and told me to stop being insecure I felt
like such an ediot :(

Jessica - posted on 12/13/2012

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Well Holly dont worry about that seriously. check this out my boyfriends ex wife has her ex in laws on her facebook and plus post pictures of them together at parties and other occassions with the daughter of my boyfriend. plus his family loves his ex wife after she cheated on him. This indeed is hard to bare

Sofia - posted on 02/23/2012

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I wouldnt spend too much time worrying about something like that. Seems kind of silly to me. (It's funny how we women let little things like that get to us. If we were men we wouldnt give it a second thought.)

Your sister-in-law probably made a close friendship with your husband's ex. Just because couples divorce doesnt mean the family has to divorce each other as well. My aunts (from my mother side) adore my dad as a brother even though my parents have been divorce over 20 yrs! That doesnt mean they dont appreciate my mom's new husband, who is a wonderful man and has been very good to both my mom and I.

Specially if you are in a different state and dont see these people often, let it go. Worry about your baby and your house. Nevermind what people are saying on Facebook lol

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