Emily - posted on 12/22/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )
This year we (My hubby, my daughter and I) moved across the country. This makes it hard for the trips that would just be a days drive. Now we fly kids to and from. Per court order, my hub is suppose to have his children during winter break for 1 week, but can not be forced to go. His daughter is 16 and son is 9. The daughter has chosen to come to see us, his son does not want to come. The ex will not encourage him to come, in fact telling son scary things about flying. This will be the first time either of them has flown. She has him brain washed that his step dad is his real father and my hubby is just a guy that he has to come visit. I am tired of her antics and seeing my hubby's heart break. She will not even allow son to talk to his father when he calls. Does not allow skype or any other forms of communication. If there is communication it is limited and monitored by her. This woman frustrates me to no end. Daughter sees her mom for who she really is and has a strong relationship with my hubby. I hate my ex, but I encourage my daughter to have a relationship with her father because she loves him and needs him. How do I deal with the ex without getting aggressive with her?