Rosie - posted on 08/24/2011 ( 23 moms have responded )
so yesterday i watched a video by a well known speaker in the gay community. of course i can't find the video or remember his name, lol, but he claims that there's no such thing as bisexuality. you are really gay or lesbian and just can't fully let yourself go there yet, for whatever reason, be is society, or internal fears. do you agree with him? or is he full of shit?
i obviously think he's full of shit. and it irritates me that this man is so respected in the gay community. as long as i have been having sexual feelings i have lusted over women. i love looking at women, i have to have woman on woman porn to get off when i'm watching porn. yet, i enjoy men very much so as well. i love looking at men, i love being touched by men, and i love the security i feel when with a man. i've never been with a woman (except for my bestie like when i was 12 or something, but i don't really count that cause that's not how our relationship is now. there's no sexual feelings it was just experiementing maybe?). all i know is that if i had the opportunity to be with a woman i would. why does everybody think they have to be an expert on this shit, and not really listen to what people say or feel?