Toni - posted on 09/21/2010 ( 30 moms have responded )
I have seen the issue of dadsnot changing their daughters nappies or bathing them or getting them dressed mentioned in several posts in the welcome forum amongst others and I wanted to know why and would you let your husband/ partner not do certain tasks with your daughters? Also would be realistic for moms to then say I am not going to deal with my son when he is naked? What makes it different for men and women?
For me it seems rediculous some women do not want their husband to see their daughters naked because if you do not trust your husband not to just be a good dad then why woul did you marry them? I know my husband is not a paedophile and would never hurt our children and so this idea seems odd to me. Can anybody shed some light on this perculiar action for me please.
I can understand when either the mom or dad were abused as children that there could be issues with trust for them and that is not perculiar or rediculous.