Sarah - posted on 08/09/2009 ( 18 moms have responded )
5,465
31
Debating Mum's Gossip is Debating Mum's little sister group, where non-debatable topics can be discussed, advice given and gossip shared!
Click on the link below if you would like to join! :)
http://apps.facebook.com/circleofmoms/gr...
Again......just keep it polite people! :)
This conversation has been closed to further comments
Sign up for Circle of Moms and be a part of this community! Membership is just one click away.
Join Circle of Moms
Cindy - posted on 08/11/2009
449
16
Support / Recommendation posts go there. People asking for advice and not for a debate. Everything can be discussed, not everything HAS to be debated.
For Example...
If my opinion is not your opinion. And you insist on harassing me becuse my veiws are different than you. It escalates from a simple discussion into a debate. Which is sad.
I'm not saying this happens..THIS WAS AN EXAMPLE.
Right now a room Mod who puffed her chest out at me for my opinion in reguards to animal treatment. Is currently fighting not to be banned/restricted from a page or group.
her quote lately is...I was denied because I do not tolerate offensive posts.
Now, as long as a post does not swear or name names it is in the guidelines of COM. Everybody has a different ways of delivering their message. Some of us are very passionate with some issues. And we can forget to use tact.
I am a blunt, sacarstic, "bag" , when I am taunted I am nasty. However, I don't swear, or call specific people nasty names. When I get an opinion that differs from mine, I am not mean to that person. And I don't flag them. That would be wrong.
I do give a cyber hug to Esther for suggesting "someone" go find a group with her same thoughts. Thank you Cathy S for your comments as well.
God, what was the point of my rant.
Oh yeah. Can I join this group, I promise to be good.
Cathy - posted on 08/11/2009
5,996
37
Christina ... you have been denied because you have bad mouthed Debating Mums and it's members in other communities after one confrontation with one member even after that thread was removed. If people choose to share personal information in a closed community, then they should feel safe to express there opinions without somebody jumping to their own conclusions and using it as ammunition in another group.
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
esther it just seems rather cliquish that there would be a private group formed and rather suspicious that I would be denied access. especially considered I have never said anything offensive and have always stuck up for those who have been targeted by childish bullies on here. I have tried my hardest to be pleasant even when people have made it very obvious how they feel about me. I have never broken any of the terms of this site but yet people always flag me and complain. maybe I just don't have a likable face, I don't know.
Esther - posted on 08/11/2009
3,511
32
To our other members - I will lock this thread in order to prevent this turning into another pointless discussion and/or back and forth insults. If anyone has any concerns over our "closed" policy, I will be happy to discuss it via PM
Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009
11,585
12
Define "crude"?
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
offensive like with crude content. I am fine with people not agreeing with me. Nit everyone is going to agree with everyone but I hate bullies and I do report them and thats why I was denied access to that page
Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009
11,585
12
Offensive? Or posts that go against your opinion?
Esther - posted on 08/11/2009
3,511
32
Christina - let's not start insulting everyone on here. We keep it closed to try to keep it civil and supportive and to try to prevent personal attacks like the one you just posted. You just proved that we made the right decision. I suggest you leave this group too and join one with more like-minded women if you resent us so much.
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
I was denied because I do not tolerate offensive posts
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
I have and for no reason. I can only assume I am being talked about
Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009
11,585
12
huh seems pretty open to me - I haven't heard anyone complaining they've been denied entry?
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
its a closed forum not a public
Sharon - posted on 08/11/2009
11,585
12
Its a public forum - how is it hiding?
--- - posted on 08/11/2009
369
2
a place to talk bad about others and hide it so they cant see how two faced you all are.
Sarah - posted on 08/10/2009
5,465
31
Quoting Cindy:
if it's not debateable how is it discussable?
Sorry if it wasn't clear. I just meant that it was for general support/advice etc rather than debates. :)
?? - posted on 08/09/2009
4,974
0
Support / Recommendation posts go there. People asking for advice and not for a debate. Everything can be discussed, not everything HAS to be debated.
Lets hope there are more "Which carseat do I get?" questions than "The baby swallowed a penny, do we go to ER?" questions lol
You can talk about your family, brag about your kiddos, ask for advice about anything, things you want suggestions for, those kind of things that no one should be debating about - just talking about :)
Sharon - posted on 08/09/2009
11,585
12
hhhmm kinda like "which carseat do I get?" or "the baby swallowed a penny, do we go to ER?" I guess.
Cindy - posted on 08/09/2009
449
16
if it's not debateable how is it discussable?
|
Top Communities |
Topics |
Top Features |
Learn More |
 |
18 Comments
View replies by