Extreme Discipline

Amie - posted on 01/11/2011

*** MOD Alert***

I am locking this thread. It is going nowhere and has dissolved.

Amie
~DM mod

Kylie - posted on 01/11/2011

oh you didn't mean me. my mistake.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

Julianne Marie
Leader
you
9 minutes ago

DONT START HARASSING ME AGAIN

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Kylie, I did not harass Julianne. I just asked her to spell my name correctly. You wouldn't know b/c it wasn't sent to you.

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Yeah, I have no problem showing people what was really said, so keep crying wolf, hun..

These are my messages to Julianne, since she is blocked, I cannot see what she wrote back between the two..


you
13 minutes ago
If..
If you're going to use my last name, spell it out properly, please. Thanks. BTW you're blocked, so don't bother messaging me back.

you
5 minutes ago
Couldn't read what you wrote b/c you're BLOCKED. There was no reason to message me back, I just don't see why you can't put the O at the end of my last name.. Just didn't make sense and a little disrespectful. Please refrain from messaging me back. I really have no interest in conversing with you further.. Ever.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

oh....shes doing it to everyone...

Kylie - posted on 01/11/2011

HU?? Please don't make up lies or i will post your PM to me for everyone to see. I did not respond after you told me I was blocked.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

lol



you were told last month not to pm me anymore prat.

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Only coming back to say one thing.. I would hardly call asking someone to spell my last name correctly harassment.. I even said not to message me back, but you did even though you are blocked.. So who's doing the harassing?

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

tbh I cant fully remember whose who and who said what I think Ive only skimmed some comments> i would probably get angry too if someone insulted my mum. My baby is still awake (trying to teach her to go to sleep by herself atm) so Im signing off for now

~Jennifer - posted on 01/11/2011

....so someone said something that wasn't true, and it sent you in to a spin.

for example..;someone calls me a whore....do I get mad?.....no....I'm not a whore, so why get so angry about something that's not true in the first place?
especially when dealing with people you've never met that know absolutely nothing about you.
Why give them that power over you?
Pretty simple, if you ask me.

Never give anyone enough power to control YOUR emotions.
That's all I'm sayin'.....but Hell....what do I know?

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

yep it was foolish of me to get pissed off at insults towards my mother. i have a temper issue sometimes. im working on it.



i was being sarcastic, as in you had every right to come in and help...i think my sarcasm is taken as seriousness here.







prat is harassing me via pm again........

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

no it got removed pretty quick :)

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

i thought you meant laureen....i was going to say..what she said was in no way immature.. i didnt see kylies post though..

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

Kylie

Rosie - posted on 01/11/2011

the post is deleted now, lets not worry about it...back to the topic at hand!!! ;)

~Jennifer - posted on 01/11/2011

No, I don't mod here.....which is why I can point out in my normal way that some moms are acting like children.

I'll be more than happy to babysit though, until one of the community mods steps in, and tell you all how foolish you look fighting like high school girls online......
=)

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

mandy, who besides me, and prat said fuck off..

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

oh no jenn, you cant say that. you dont moderate here, you cant help....

*eyeroll

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

ok thats fine just seemed rather silly that someone is a moderator for one group and can carry on with immaturity in another. Doesnt set very good eamples for a mums site. But I guess thats how its run. As long as I know the rules

~Jennifer - posted on 01/11/2011

wow....can't leave you ladies alone for a minute, huh?

CHILL THE FUCK OUT!!!
We're supposed to be adults. remember?

sheesh.

Rosie - posted on 01/11/2011

she's not a moderator for this group.

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

huh she was moderating by telling someone to fuck off?

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

she wasnt attacking anyone. she was moderating.

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

I thought this site was managed well but why are people who are moderators on the welcome page allowed to attack people on here just because someone has different views and they dont believe in smacking themselves?

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Christina DON'T GO PLEASE!!!

Rosie - posted on 01/11/2011

oiy!!

Melissa - posted on 01/11/2011

I understand you guys have completely different views but you shouldnt take it so personally you can debate without attacking. Its just the internet no need to get too worked up

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

good. :)

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

I didn't IMPLY anything. SHE'S the one that said her mother beat her!!!! How was I IMPLYING it?? It came straight from Julianne herself. Again, starting to remember why I quit coming back here. I am so over you ladies. All of you.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

sherri, i was in no way slamming you, i think no lower of you as a person then i would any other individual, i know in your heart you think you did what was right. but its not. i was never slamming you, just the issue.

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

I am deleting my post to calm this thread down vs. add to the chaos.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

i said sorry, i have a temper, i was spanked as a child, im working on it. i admit the problem, im trying to fix it. when someone insults myself or my family i get pissed.

Charlie - posted on 01/11/2011

Take the catfight out of the classroom ladies .

Dear jeebus you implied things about Julianes mother then she retaliated now you are both as bad as each other .

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

. It's really all starting to come together now, though. If you think it's funny your mom beat you and this is how you act as an 'adult'

And Julianne, I'm starting to see the connection of being beaten and how you act now..


Julianne, you are.. Ridiculous


, Julianne.. So mature, hun.. I mean, really.



ok, those were not personal at all, im just a nut...

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Julianne she isn't the problem here. You happen just not like what she is saying. I am sorry now that their is more than one person to gang up on for this issue it isn't okay anymore??

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

I wasn't the one that started it last month, Julianne. You accused me of something and wouldn't let it go. Much like what you're doing now. If you have something to say to me, take it to a PM.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

sorry i have a temper, my mother spanked me as a child...im working on that though.

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Julianne I am sorry may have missed a few posts I can't keep up with as fast as this is going. I thought you were saying I thumped you.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

prato, seriously, you didnt cause enough bullshit last month?

Charlie - posted on 01/11/2011

0_o

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Now I am lost this thread went haywire in a matter of seconds.

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

I said the way you ACT, not who you are as a person b/c the two could be completely different for all I know.

And yet you tell me to go fuck myself?? Don't call No Thumps if you're going to 'attack' right back.

Julianne - posted on 01/11/2011

do you not know what a personal attack is when you see it??? maturity level, actually insulting who i am as a person...seriously???

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Who thumped you Julianne?

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Yeah.. And talk about No Thumps. Your post would def. be considered a violation if mine is.

Sherri - posted on 01/11/2011

Kylie then those are extreme cases this is not even relatively the spanking we are referring too. 1-2 open hand spanks on the bum over clothing never in anger or frustration. I was also spanked but my mom used it correctly. I guess that is where the confusion may lie in all this spanking controversy.

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Julianne, I never said your mom didn't love you. I just said her beating you wasn't out of love, it was out of anger. There's a difference.

C. - posted on 01/11/2011

Kylie, if you were spanked out of the heat of the moment, your mom didn't spank properly. You should never ever hit out of anger. What your mom did is almost as bad as actually BEATING someone.

Like I said before, you tell them 'No' first, give warnings and/or timeouts and THEN spank. You should never use a spanking as the first step towards disciplining your child. People that do are very, very wrong in that.

Charlie - posted on 01/11/2011

Spanking "out of love " , Starting to feel nauseated again .