Courtney - posted on 08/22/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
A few weeks ago I found messages between my fiance and another woman on his facebook. It was only that one (I searched his phone, email and work computer) and it never went farther than flirting and talk of what could have been if he had taked his chance with her in the past. I broke off our engagement and told him he had to earn back my trust. Well, in the time since I have seen changes in him I didn't even expect from this. It's like we just started dating again! He is always kind, considerate and sweet. He helps around the house and with the kids (girls, 1 and 2) and makes sure I get "me" time. Above all else, our sex life has blossomed into something even more passionate and raw than it has ever been, and we've always had a pretty hot sex life. We both want it everyday, and we even started "sexting" while he's at work-I always felt kind-of silly doing it but have found that it really gets him going for later! So, I guess my point is that in some strange way, I think what he did was actually good for our relationship because it made us look closely at what we have and appreciate it. Any other women out there go through the same thing and feel the same way as I do?