Tara - posted on 07/04/2011 ( 35 moms have responded )
So a friend was telling me that her sister NEVER initiates sex. She firmly believes that it is a man's role to do so.
She said that since the man is the one who has to actually get an erection than he should be the one to initiate the act itself. She is not religious and this is not based on something her husband has said etc. I know her husband and I don't think he even knows she thinks this way.
I agree that with my ex he was the one who initiated most often, mostly because I didn't care too much in the last 4 years about having sex with someone who I didn't like much.
But with Steve I initiate a lot more than he does, just cause he is always ready so he lets me take advantage more often. lol
What about you, do you think it is more the man's role to start the interplay that leads to sex?
I know this could be posted in the sex and marriage community, but I like it here, and I know you all have sex, so this should be an easy one.