â*PHOENIX*â - posted on 08/17/2010 ( 50 moms have responded )
Is it ok to condition/steer our children’s dating preferences based on race….??
Why or why not
For some it is one of the hardest things to think of (there child dating) now lets throw in the fact that they are going to bring home someone of a different race…..for the fist time in your family…..
I have a 7year old son, who is black, and he is attracted to white girls…. and yes I say attracted. My son is around a multitude of race of people so I know that his attraction is genuine.
I have no problem with whom he chooses to date (at the age of 30),,LOL
When I go to make my judgment of whoever the girl is it will be based on her character….
My sister and I argue all the time, because she says she wont let her son date a white person (like she can stop him) her reason is she just don’t like them for her son!
I do know of people who are not “Racist” but don’t want there son/daughter to date outside there race. That Is a contradiction to me…….