Jessi - posted on 03/26/2011 ( 18 moms have responded )
just wondering what everyone else thinks they would do in this situation.
my friends husband cheated on her and got another girl pregnant. but before they found out this girl was pregnant my friend also got pregnant. the couple worked through the cheating problem and these two babies were born within months of each other. the wife absolutely LOVES this "other" child and treats her as her own when they have her over.
i think its pretty great- and often wonder if i could be as big of a person. i know i would obviously not treat the child unkindly, but my friend with no hesitations at all considers this as another of her children. i honestly dont know if i could be that big of a person, i think id end up being reminded of my spouse cheating too much when the child was around and taking it out on him? i mean i dont know what i would do im just guessing since thank goodness im not in that situation; but maybe im just a horrible person? what do you all think?