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There is no way to put this that is not going to make me sound like I'm stuck up or full of myself. I am writing the facts of the incident and that's it. I don't look at myself this way and I'm not a full of myself snot who thinks she's better than everyone else.
I am part of a play group with some other moms where we take turns hosting in our homes. This isn't a group made up of my friends, it's a group I found in PlayDate mag that looked like fun. When I received my Feb. itenerary I noticed that I had been taken out of the loop. Meaning that I would not be hosting this month. When I asked what the problem was the director informed me that a conversation came up between some moms that they felt "inadequate" after visiting my home bc #1) It's clean. #2) We have nice things and a nice home. and #3)Because some of their kids left wanting things that my kids have that their parents can't afford.
I feel like I am being outcast for having more than these women. Never ever have a judged any of them for what they have or don't have- I've never even thought about it until now. I couldn't give 2 craps of what kind of car you drive or what kind of home you live in, as long as when you are hosting a playdate it's safe and fun. They had all been so nice and welcoming before and now after hosting and they learned more about my life they don't like me as much bc I have something they don't? Hell, I'll have a moms date and they can play dress up in my closet if it means that damn much to them.
Am I wrong for being upset and hurt by this? What are your thoughts?