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My husband and I recently got married. And by recently, I mean two weeks ago. Before we were married I had questions about a woman with whom my husband had a friendly relationship with that works out at the same gym as he does.
He says that she is just a woman he developed a friendship with in his Zumba class and it's just that, but I have my doubts.
He talks in his sleep and a few times he's said this woman's name only to later grope me while in the kitchen or where ever after waking. At first, I brushed it off but now am beginning to suspect that he isn't telling me everything.
I've also had the opportunity to read some of their FB messages, seeing as my husband has left up the site in plain sight. I'm not sure if he's done this on purpose, or is just clueless. My guess knowing him is mostly the latter. Their messages state that both parties have had dreams about the other -- however, they do not elaborate on what the content is. Now they are attempting to set up a time/date when they can meet up. Since my husband works nights, they have agreed that is should be in the morning so that he can tell me that he simply was late because of a meeting.
So ... with this, is it cheating? Or am I being over-reactive?