Payola - posted on 04/05/2012 ( 105 moms have responded )
We were long distance and I ended our relationship while pregnant. He wanted to be a family with the baby and I couldn't handle a long distance relationship anymore.
I am with my husband now and he signed the birth certificate when my daughter was born last year. Bio father saw this as an attempt to exclude him. I just thought it to be more stable for us.
The bio father is in the Navy and does too far away to visit often, maybe one month at the most he says due to the cost and his job, etc.
I don't think this is good for my daughter. She is only 1 years old. I do not think he can commit to my daughter and even if he does I don't see any good coming from it. My husband would like to keep her as his own and not deal with her bio father.
As a mother do you agree or disagree with my feelings and decisions?