Lacye - posted on 01/02/2011 ( 65 moms have responded )
I've been thinking about this for a while and I figured this would be a good debate. It's from a personal situation that I'm in right now so please be patient with me. My bf and I are going to be married soon. His ex (during one of her rantings) informed us that if he married me and I got a job, she was going to force me to pay child support. Now I'm not sure if this is true and I can't seem to find much information on this. Right now I don't have a job, I'm in college so I can get a good job. To go further into this, she doesn't work, she's not trying to find a job, and she has said before that she's not going to get a job. Is it right that I (as a stepmother) should have to pay her child support (even though he is not behind on it) when she doesn't even try to get a job or to get her education?