Tah - posted on 03/21/2010 ( 28 moms have responded )
her husband is having an affair, it seems like a no brainer right...but some women don't take it well from others..i told my best friend her boyfriend(my fiancee at the times cousin) was cheating on her, she called him, they had it out and broke up and she called me back and told me I was the reason she didn't have a man. So I, being hurt, informed her that if he was cheating, then she didn't have a man when she thought she did....it strained our relationship(among other things) and we are just talking again years later on facebook...
My now friend and fellow military wife thinks her husband is perfect, and to see them together u would think so, he does everything for her and the kids and she thinks she is the luckiest women in the world and when other friends come to us about their problems, she doesn't hesitate to tell them how her husband would never(i am very happy with my husband also but i don't rub it in when a friend needs a shoulder)..here is the problem, I know of at least 2 women he is having on-going affairs with. One of the women, also a nurse, of course knows of other women because when they have pillow talk, he confesses, a best friend when they were stationed in georgia, a young lady who baked him a cake for his b-day, which he took to this nurses house and she told me how good the cake was, i mean it's not like he could take it home right.
So my questions are
1. Do you tell a friend about her husbands indiscretionssssss?.....(yes..all the s's)
2. Do we as women even want to know?
3. What would your reaction be?
4. I see how she treats him and sometimes pity him for it, Don't take this the wrong way, he is wrong and there is no excuse, she is not the easiest person to talk to and treats him like a kid, allowance, embarrasing him in front of us at bar-b-ques and parties, so am i wrong if i say, I can see why he might feel he needs to do something to feel like he is in control of some part of his life?...no excusing his behavior.....but to see how good he is to her in front of everybody, i was in total shock....what would u do?