Mrs. - posted on 12/30/2010 ( 41 moms have responded )
Alright that, IMO, awful looking movie The Dilemma starring Vince Vaughan and Kevin James is coming out. In it, this is what I surmise from the run of the mill trailer, Vince Vaughan sees his best friend's wife having an affair with some dude. He has to decide what to do and hilarity ensues (sarcasm).
So would you tell your best friend? If you did, how would you go about it? Do you think it's wrong to stick you nose into personal relationships?
I will answer myself first.
No I would not tell my friend. It is not my place. Chances are, with me, that I usually know by the time I get wind of something, that the person in question is an ass already. Chances are that my bf already knows he's an ass too and needs to find out for herself that how much an ass he is. I think it's very hard to repair a relationship with a friend after you selfishly tell them to alleviate your anxiety about something. I'd take it to my grave and comfort my friend when she needed it.