Melissa - posted on 02/08/2011 ( 54 moms have responded )
So I have a friend that literaly judges everything I have done since my baby has been born. She thinks that my social life shouldnt have changed, that it is easy to travel with a new baby, that I dont do more than she will because she will be working 40 hours a week and put her baby in daycare.
If I say its hard to travel with a baby who is teething, or colicy, or just doesnt want his schedule to change and she replies "no its not your baby has to get used to your life style"....
I say the only down side I have found to being home all day is my cleaning has increased 10 fold and it seems to never end and she replies it the same for a mom who works just add 40 hours a week to that cleaning and taking care of a baby...uuggghhh she is driving me nuts...IS SHE Nieve or am I wrong to think you can't do it all and your life 100% changes when you have a baby and nothing is easy...sure it can be done but come on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I say we are going to ask your hubby to be our sons Godfather she replies "oh dont you have to be a member of a church and what is a dedication I dont get it our baby is being baptised at birth so why did u wait so long and why arent you baptising him ......I explain our reasons and religous beliefs she replies with judgment.....uugghhh what to do what to do!
Dont know how to handle this girl...she is rude and very judgemental with everything I say and do when it comes to being a mom or with my baby! Help!