"Why breastfeeding is overrated"

Kate CP - posted on 02/03/2011 ( 181 moms have responded )

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This article is rather long so I only pasted the first couple paragraphs. Have at it, ladies!

"Joan B. Wolf is an assistant professor of women’s studies at Texas A&M University and the author of the controversial new book Is Breast Best? Taking on the Breastfeeding Experts and the New High Stakes of Motherhood.

Q: The Canadian Paediatric Society recommends that babies be exclusively breastfed for the first six months of life. In your book, you argue that human breast milk is being falsely touted as a magical elixir.
A: The discourse surrounding breastfeeding is extraordinary. We’re told it can protect against everything from ear infections and diabetes to leukemia and heart disease, and can even improve social skills.


Q: Various studies have concluded that babies fed “non-human milk” have a higher incidence of respiratory disease, including pneumonia and bronchitis, diarrhea and other digestive illnesses, ear infections (up to four times more), urinary tract infections, meningitis and sudden death syndrome. One study says that during a baby’s first three months, exclusive formula feeding increases infant mortality by 61 per cent. Can all these studies be wrong?
A: They are all misleading because they are based on associational or observational research. You look at two variables and realize there is a connection and make the case that the connection is causal. But the leap to causal inference is in most cases not justified by the evidence.

The primary problem with breastfeeding research is this: these studies compare babies who have been breastfed with babies who were formula-fed. But they can’t control for critical confounding variables—something associated with breastfeeding that is itself also associated with better health outcomes. For example, one thing we know is that women who are middle class or more highly educated are more likely to breastfeed. So more recent studies say, let’s control for class and education and see if they make a difference, and in some cases they do. But none of the studies have been able to control for the decision to breastfeed. This is to say that mothers who choose to breastfeed usually do so because they have been persuaded that it has health benefits. These are the kinds of mothers who are willing and able to go the extra mile to provide the healthiest environment for their child..."


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Sal - posted on 02/08/2011

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i have one more little thing to add, today i was having morning tea/play date with a mum i met last year, we aren't best of freinds just getting to know each other as i have moved recently, anyway she is pregant, and very happy, however her 4 yr old has recently aquired a brain injury so now needs a vast amount more time and energy put into her care, now this mum clearly has her hands full and needs love and support and her concern at the moment is if bf becomes too time consuming and too much of a drain on her personally she is worried about the negative attitudes of people about bottle feeding.....one of the other mums at the morning tea told her not to be silly that no one would judge her for choosing bottle feeding, how wrong she was, with all the negativity on her and all the remarks that i have seen saying that mums who don;t bf i can see why she is upset, and that just isn;t fair, so ladies please remember that real people do hear this type of talk and are upset by it and this poor woman doesn;t need your judgement and anger she needs help support and understanding we are after all fighting for the same cause children who are loved cared for and chersished and who are we to put another mum in this type of situation...be nice people

Sarah - posted on 02/08/2011

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I don't judge anyone for formula feeding, I don't think it's right for people to pick apart breastfeeding like this..... And people don't stop to think about all the added stuff they put in formula.... like I said... I HAVE NOTHING AGAINST FORMULA FEEDING, but when a woman desides to breastfeed she's now the one out there to get judged and slapped with the bad looks and comments... Remember when formula first came out?? Yeah, now that it's so much "easier" to do formula they are now treating breastfeeding like they use to formula. Give it up people. Everyone has their choice. Whatever you pick is your choice. As long as it doesn't actually hurt the baby in the end, no one should be judged or looked at crossly for it....

Chatty - posted on 02/08/2011

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LMFAO @ Michelle Ford's comment!

Stifler's - posted on 02/08/2011

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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA *prays that mods lock the thread before shit gets crazy*

Crystal - posted on 02/08/2011

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I honestly think there are two separate issues here...is breastfeeding healthier for a baby...In most cases yes. Even this article proves that...she says it...regardless to if it is the milk or the caretaking...or the fact that the mother being in such close proximity to her baby for extended periods of time...it is stated breastfeeding or the act of breastfeeding provides some positive health benefits to the child. Now the second issue is why women choose to breastfeed....in this case it doesn't matter why...if it is to save money, to provide better chances for their infant, because they are lactating, whatever the choice is yours to make.
There is no debate here in my opinion...human milk is designed for humans...it just makes sense. If a mother chooses to bottle feed...have at it...but don't denounce breastmilk like it wasn't specifically designed for your baby to consume and digest...it is what it is.

Amanda - posted on 02/08/2011

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Becky "when i give birth to a calf i'll feed it cows milk" - you know, i did notice in the grocery store the other night that instead of cans of formula they had cows, just attach a baby right to the teat.....

Formula is DERIVED from cows milk, it is not "cows milk", no one is "shoving it down" anybody's throat. actually babies suck it right down, just like they do breast milk. Why can't we just be happy when people feed their babies?! yeah, breast milk is natural, it has some health benefits over formula, but formula is perfectly adequate for those that chose not to breast feed for whatever reason they would like. perhaps if you would take a step off your pedestal for a moment you might be able to remove your head from that dark hole it's stuck in (aka your ass) and understand that some women "can't" breast feed due to work, inverted nipples, painful memories, and just plain ol cause they don't feel like it!

Charlie - posted on 02/08/2011

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*takes off jacket * It's getting hot in here .

Nikkole - posted on 02/08/2011

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Glad to know im either un educated/lazy and i gave birth to a cow, according to Becky! I tried with both kids with my first i had absolutely no milk that came in i tried to bf for 4weeks and nothing!!! With m second i didn't produce enough and gave up because my daughter was loosing weight! Me and my babies have amazing relationships with each other soo if im horrible for feeding my babies than so be it! But people LIKE Becky make formula feeding mothers not want to try to bf1!!!

Jacquie - posted on 02/08/2011

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As a first time mum nearly 2 years ago i was desperate to breast feed. I attended a class and watched a video. Then my beautiful son was born and i tried it, and tried it and tried it. I asked midwives in the hospital every time i tried to get him to latch and i was in agony. I got so many different pieces of advice i was left confused. At one point i was told that i would have to "toughen up a bit" by a nurse. The hospital was so busy. I took him home just over 24hours after he was born and still tried. He was hungry and i was in agony. I would sit tapping my feet at 3am trying to distract me from the pain and crying. I gave up after a few days and sobbed my heart out while i sent up hubby out at 7am to get some formula.

My son thrived after that and the midwife was kind saying at least i had given it a good go. i still felt crushed and now even i feel guilt. Mainly caused by all these people who think formula lets a kid down. My son is healthy, happy and smart. Part of that is genetics, some is how i weaned him and some is day to day living.

Im now 23 weeks pregnant and really want to try harder this time to breast feed but i have to think about what is best for my family. this time i will not put myself down if i can as long as i give it a good go

Tia Melissa - posted on 02/08/2011

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I gotta say this...



For the person who posted the classic, "If it wasn't safe, they wouldn't..." line. Remember the Chinese infants that died because of melamine added to formula - which is a poison but raises the protein levels when testing for nitrogen? That was a profit driven event. It wasn't safe and they sold it anyway.



And for the "it hasn't improved any..." comment: Formula is a whole lot better than it was 40 years ago. They ARE trying to mimic what we do understand about breast milk. Lipids, DHA, probiotics, elemental breakdown of proteins, etc.



AND I still don't trust advertising one little bit - formula or anything else!



ETA: that goat's milk is a viable (and historically utilized) alternative when breast milk is not available. It is actually closer in protein/carbohydrate levels to human milk than cow's milk but they can't get a goat to produce enough milk to make a cost effective formula. It would be as much as an elemental formula - which, if you have a child with food allergies, costs an arm & a leg. And goodness does goat milk smell if it's not right from the teat!

Sherri - posted on 02/08/2011

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Well Becky guess you don't choose to work, that is why I had to switch to formula. Guess you never needed to help support your family financially.

Tia Melissa - posted on 02/08/2011

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I had to skim some of the comments... I'll start by saying that I have exclusively breastfed my kids for 1+ years each, depending on self-weaning and pregnancy drop out. Now read on!

The way I see it is this: Feed your baby. I don't particularly care if it's from a breast, bottle, dropper or sipper cup. What bugs me is that loads of women (here in the US) walk into a hospital to give birth and walk out with a bag of formula, never having seen a lactation consultant, and with a baby that has been fed formula already in the nursery. If they - particularly 1st time moms - haven't done the research, they aren't really able to make an informed decision. That's what I believe it should be - a conscious decision. Formula, for those that use it, has come a LOOOOOOONG way from the days of my infant hood. Essentially, I was fed dried milk and Karo syrup solids.

I breastfeed because it's easier for me to get sleep and manage my family when I do. It works for me. It might not work for another family. I know several women for whom it actually exacerbates post-partum depression. They're very sensitive to the prolactin and depressed endocrine functions. So, you have to ask is a breast better than a mom? Does breastfeeding make you more or less functional as a mother? Do you have the support and lifestyle that facilitates nursing? What do YOU want to do? Can you breastfeed (medication, reduction, supply, nipple type, etc)?

Whatever your answers are, then that's what you should do. Everyone else can spend their $.02 elsewhere!

Rosie - posted on 02/08/2011

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i suggest some people read mary n. most recent post again. sigh. did anybody here give birth to almonds, rice or soy either? why do we drink those? and are you telling us becky that you still get your milk straight from the source? *eyeroll*

Brandi - posted on 02/07/2011

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wow @ Becky, the only one on here who seems to not know a damn thing about... well... anything. Cudos to any mother on here WHO DOESN'T think her way is the ONLY way! Definitely does not apply to Becky!

Carissa - posted on 02/07/2011

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I am not against formula feeding at all. I actually formula fed my first child because he wouldn't latch on and it was just too much for me to try to get him to do so. My second however latched right now. Either way I think there are benefits to both. Formula feeding usually gives the mother more sleep so she is more alert during the day to play or clean. Breastfeeding takes more out of you and sometimes you are just to darn tired to do any cleaning at all, nevermind get out of your jammies. I think to each their own. You shouldn't be looked down upon because your formula fed or be praised because you breastfed. You are just doing the best you can for your child.

Krista - posted on 02/07/2011

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Thanks, Mary Renee -- that's very kind. I didn't BF for long, as he was really hardly getting anything at all off of me. But, I did it for 6 weeks, so at least he got SOME, and he got the colostrum, which I thought was rather important.

Oh, and @Becky White:

"If i ever give birth to a calf i will be feeding it cow's milk!"

I could probably say something right now that would be VERY fitting and VERY funny, but it would be a violation of no-THUMPS, so I'm just going to let the rest of the posters here use their imaginations. They know me well enough that they probably know where I'd be going with this.

Mary Renee - posted on 02/07/2011

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Krista E, I'm really proud of you for breastfeeding even if you had to supplement. I was in a similar position as you. I had a breast reduction when I was 17. I didn't even want to buy any breastfeeding products (Boppy, nursing bras) etc because I was so afraid of the disappointment if I wasn't able to breastfeed (I really wanted to be able to breastfeed). Luckily, I was! My cousin and mom brought me some nursing bras in the hospital and my old highschool english teacher bought me a Boppy!!!!

I've talked to other mothers that had breast reductions, some didn't even try, and others (like you) had to heavily supplement but still successfully continued to try for three months.

I know how hard it is because you don't know if your problems are normal, or due to your surgery, but I'm really proud of anyone who tries - especially in the face of adversity. Good for you! My daughter is not 9 months and expect for once in the hospital as a newborn and her solids (started at 6 months) I was able to exclusively breastfeed.

While I believe whole-heartedly that breast is best I think the important thing is that everyone at least try. If it doesn't work then that's ok, you tried your best. If it does - great! As long as you tried I think you're good.

Sarah - posted on 02/07/2011

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"98% of women are perfectly capable of naturally feeding their babies, those that choose not to are on the whole either ill educated or lazy"

Wow, Becky! Thanks for that wonderful information! You have TOTALLY changed my mind about breastfeeding & I think I'm going to give it another try! Woohoo!

Give me a freaking break.

Sarah - posted on 02/07/2011

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I love the way that as soon as the excessively pro breastfeeding mothers have it pointed out that perhaps that's not going to be the most successful way to get their point across...........we suddenly have a group of posts that are quite frankly extremely rude and quite offensive! Weird huh!

Cassie - posted on 02/07/2011

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Becky White, I really do wonder how you comment with such compassion. The kindness just oozes from your posts.

Charlie - posted on 02/07/2011

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Drugs aren't the only thing that increases supply you can try other "natural" stimulates of milk like oats , flaxseed , brewers yeast then if still not getting enough try medication , in the end the milk is still being produced FROM the human body there are all sorts of ways to increase supply , to increase it from the outside is still very natural people have been doing it since the first woman breastfed , it has and probably always will be done for mothers who wish to breastfeed .

The fact is formula does save lives for the babies who nothing else , physical ability to feed is or not to feed is IMO JUST as important as the mental ability to feed or not feed and woman should start thinking from both aspects when discussing breastfeeding / formula feeding not just whether you physically couldn't .

Becky - posted on 02/07/2011

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98% of women are perfectly capable of naturally feeding their babies, those that choose not to are on the whole either ill educated or lazy.

Becky - posted on 02/07/2011

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If i ever give birth to a calf i will be feeding it cow's milk!

Rebecca - posted on 02/07/2011

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Shove it down their throats?

Let me ask you Jamie, if a mother does not produce milk naturally and does what a lot of pro-lac people suggest, going on a drug that ups milk production for the sake of sticking with breastfeeding, does that sound natural?

Doesn't sound natural to me.

Jaime - posted on 02/07/2011

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i would rather breastfeed because it's more natural. health reasons are just benefits. why does everyone want to shove cow's milk down a baby human's throat? sigh.

Mary - posted on 02/07/2011

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Beautifully put, Esther!



When I read some of the more ardent pro-breastfeeding posts on here, I'm often left thinking "Well, there is a mom who is struggling so much with her own insecurities that, apparently, the only way she can achieve validation of her own parenting is through putting others down." It is the only logical explanation I can find for why some women are so rabid in a stance that is not just pro-breast, but also anti-bottle.

Perhaps I am overly cynical, but I really doubt it is because they have a genuine concern for how a stranger's infant is being fed. I think they are just looking for an easy way to pat themselves on the back for what a superior mother they (think) they are.



It's sad to me that so many breastfeeding advocates are blind to the damage they are doing to a cause they supposedly support. All of the endless ranting and lecturing about the evils of formula only serves to alienate and anger the very people they are trying to persuade. You really can promote breastfeeding without ever saying word one about formula or bottle feeding.

Sarah - posted on 02/07/2011

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Well said Esther!!!! :)

Esther - posted on 02/07/2011

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I have to admit that I skimmed the last 2 pages of responses a little, but I totally agree with the basic premise of this article. I actually read an article making a similar case a few years back and I've linked to it before on DM (here is the link again for those who are interested: http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/arch... ).

I don't think the health benefits associated with breastmilk are anywhere near as overwhelming as the pro-breastfeeding crowd would have women believe. When I hear someone say "if only women were given accurate information ...." what I think they are saying is "if only women were given the information *I* agree with .....". I think breastfeeding is great if it works for you. If it doesn't, I think bottle feeding is equally great. I'm willing to believe there are slight health benefits to breastmilk over formula, but I don't think they in any way warrant women stressing themselves out over breastfeeding, feeling guilty when they don't or can't, or even compelling them to try it when it's really just not their thing.

And to be honest, the vehemence with which some pro-lactating women preach about it makes me want to try an all-Coca Cola diet with my next child (good thing I'm not having any more ;).

Krista - posted on 02/07/2011

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So, I can go with the fact that breast milk is "better food", I can go with that it's convenient and I can even go with the fact that breast milk probably has some health benefits. What I cannot ABIDE is when people try to make out that breast feeding is the only way to be "close and connected" with their babies. BULLSHIT!

Amen, sister. That always irked me as well -- when people imply that bottle-feeding mothers do not bond (or do not bond as well) with their babies.

I'm in a rather unique position, as I both breastfed AND formula-fed (I had to supplement heavily due to having had a breast reduction). And that wonderful, heart-achy feeling of looking down into the eyes of this tiny, perfect creature who you're nourishing, and just feeling so overwhelmed with love that you could burst? I had that feeling while breast-feeding, and I had that feeling while bottle-feeding.

Bonding is in the heart, not in the tits.

Jenn - posted on 02/07/2011

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@Julianne - living a natural lifestyle still does not make you immune to illness. Perhaps it could give you a strong immune system to help fight off illnesses, but that doesn't stop your body from contracting something in the first place.

Sharon - posted on 02/07/2011

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I'm with Sarah. People are really admiring of the bond I have with my kids. We get comments from strangers and family every time we get together.

And my kids aren't dependent infants. I have one 15 yr old TEEN boy who tells his friends how cool I am. And I do not consider myself his "friend". Then there is the 10 yr old and 8 yr old.

Mothering takes WORK. Simply sticking your tit in your babys' mouth doesn't make you a world class mom. It might even mean you're lazy. LMAO.

I know some awesome breastfeeding moms. I know some breastfed babies that are the sickliest things I've ever seen. I've seen some lazy ass formula feeding moms. I've seen some dads that are super proud of their breast feeding wives and I know them because I think they're singularly inappropriate men.

Um... this JUST happened. I was a bit shocked. I was cashiering and this snot faced baby was whining and listless... looked like he had a fever. His car seat/carrier was filthy. What all the stains were, I have no idea. and his dad pipes up... "its ok honey, mommy will be here to give your meal,..." then in an aside to me "... its her boob, its the best you know, she really loves our baby." Really? dude? wtf? and he mimed hefting up a breast. I was gnarled out.

That is the most extreme thing I've ever seen/heard in regards to breastfeeding actually ever directed at me, one on one.

I go out of my way to encourage moms who breastfeed to use our fitting rooms, rather than the bathroom, if they want privacy. Thats just nasty (feeding in a bathroom). If they want to sit on our publicly available chairs and breast feed - AWESOME! But to have your husband heft his fake boobie and mime sucking... EW.

Julianne - posted on 02/07/2011

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actually jenn, because of our lifestyle and the fact that she was breastfed, we both are less likely to fall ill compared to the general population. Theres nothing"super human" about it, its just natural. Most people are denatured.

Sarah - posted on 02/07/2011

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So, I can go with the fact that breast milk is "better food", I can go with that it's convenient and I can even go with the fact that breast milk probably has some health benefits. What I cannot ABIDE is when people try to make out that breast feeding is the only way to be "close and connected" with their babies. BULLSHIT!

It REALLY winds me up when people play that card, it's rubbish. I never breastfed either of my girls, but I challenge anyone to suggest that I'm not as "close and connected" to my girls as a breastfeeding Mum is to their kids.

Sorry rant over.......carry on.

Amber - posted on 02/07/2011

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You know, I think we all just do the best we can as mothers. I do not look down upon those who formula feed, as a matter of fact, I feel that some breast fed babies would be better off with formula. Some breast feeding mothers eat crap, pop pills, and drink...to me that is not a mother who is really concerned about the "health" of her child. And yeah, I said it, if you are going to CHOOSE to breastfeed, then it takes a lot of work, and you are going to have to watch what you are eating and putting into your body! In cases that you are just going to eat bad stuff and drink bad stuff, than yeah, the child is definitely better off to be bottle fed. I personally breast fed, and feel that it helped my kids to stay healthy, i don't personally know about formula, bc that is not what i did, that is what worked for me...so whose to say one is better than the other?!? But what I do know is, God gave us boobs for a reason, and I don't think it was to be your husbands play things.

Sarah - posted on 02/07/2011

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I agree with Rebecca. My 16 1/2 month old son was mainly formula fed & he has NEVER been sick either. Not one ear infection & not one fever. Actually, I take that back. He had a cough & sniffles at 8 weeks old...but hmm...that's funny...I was breastfeeding him at the time. Weird.



Yeah, I think it has WAY more to do with the individual child & their genetic makeup. That's just my opinion based on what I've observed from my son, of course. ;) Breastfeeding is great, IF that's what you want to do. But, formula feeding worked great for me & my family, too.

Jenn - posted on 02/07/2011

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Here's how it works - if YOU get sick with something, then your body will make antibodies to fight it off, which you will pass on to your child via your breastmilk, so they will now have a helping hand in fighting off that particular illness. IF they however, come into contact with something that YOU did not, they will not receive that same protection. I solely breastfed all 3 of my kids, but they did still get sick (not much, but they did). Breastfeeding doesn't mean that your kid is suddenly immune to all illness - that's a ridiculous thing to assume or imply. So just because your child has been lucky so far Julianne, doesn't make them some super-human who will never be sick in their life. Before you respond with a "I never said that", it's the implication of your snarky words. As I said, I did breastfeed, and am all for it and personally wish that everyone could/would do it, but let's get real.

Julianne - posted on 02/07/2011

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It doesn't make us better parents, just gives the child a better food.

Brandi - posted on 02/07/2011

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Well, I don't think it really matters. BUT, either way YOU choose to do it, don't try to make parents who don't choose to breast feed feel like they are less of a parent because you think that all of your facts of breast feeding are correct. Just because you breast feed does not make you a better parent. It does not mean you are smarter or that you got a better education. And it certainly does not ensure that your child will or will not get sick.

So, if you breast fed, great, but don't for one second think that you are a better parent than I am because I chose to bottle feed. Or anyone else who chose to bottle feed. :)

Rebecca - posted on 02/06/2011

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Nope, I think it's the individual child. My 19 month old was formula fed and has had one cold.

Julianne - posted on 02/06/2011

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My 13 month old has never been sick from a bug, had an ear infection, or any other thing along those lines before, i think it may have something to do with the way shes fed??Since studies do back that up.

Mary Renee - posted on 02/06/2011

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Milk comes out of our breast in order to nourish our babies. Prior to the invention of formula it was the only option available.



I don't need someone to tell me that breastfeeding is best for my baby... it has clearly withstood the test of time for eternity...



To this day, they have failed to mimic the microbiotics and bacterium in breastmilk that help coat a infant's underdeveloped intestines and aide in digestion.



My daughter was fed formula once during a hospital stay due to elevated bilirubin levels. Her bowel movements from breastmilk were odorless, and mustard colored... her bowel movements from formula were dark, sticky and smelly. Again, I don't need a research group to tell me which is better...



Also, my 9-month-old has had one minor cold her entire life, no ear infections, and that's after I allow her to play in the dirt with other kids aged 3 months-3 years in our mommy exercise group.



I'm not against formula feeding for mothers who have found it to be their only option due to medical issues or work issues.



But even if the margin of illness prevention is teeny tiny, I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I didn't try to do what is best.



The correlation between the fact that most breastfeeding mothers are well-educated and have a higher income and those factors might play a role in the why their risks are lower is interesting. I break the mold in this case. I breastfeed and I was 23 when my daughter was born, didn't graduate from college until my daughter was 10 days old, I wasn't married, I currently don't have a job as my internships were canceled due to the economy, my daughter is on government health insurance, and I live in a teeny tiny one bedroom apartment where I co-sleep with my daughter because we don't have room or money for a crib.



So, we'll see - but so far so good!

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EHHH... Breastfeeding is absolutely necessary the world over (ie, everywhere that isn't filthy rich, such as the US) in order to save infants from dying horrible, slow deaths due to diarrhea and malnutrition. The numbers here are irrefutable.



Secondly, the research that shows a lowered risk of breast cancer in moms and better health outcomes in babies who are breastfed ARE controlled for socio-economic factors... breastfeeders have been compared to other factor-grouped breastfeeding moms in many excellent studies. To suggest that a lower-income woman who breastfeeds displays fewer advantages than a higher-income woman is either absurd or an argument for eugenics. Many factors are cross compared in experimental, correlational studies in order to control for confounding factors: age, income, ethnicity, diet, weight, etc..



Ultimately though, this argument has been BEATEN TO DEATH. If you care about the data, good for you. If you don't, fine. There are lots of other things you can do benefit your baby's health, if you wish, and there are things you can chose to omit that would harm your baby's health.... probably. I mean, there is strong evidence to SUGGEST that second-hand smoke is not good for humans in general, but you can refute that data if you wish.



Above all, we should be considerate of individuals' desires and needs and stop beating each other up about this issue. BUT PLEASE do not dismiss decent, reliable data and conclusions, based solely on a desire to defend a group of women who want to feel better. Science is not about making people feel good- it's about having the closest thing to what can be called "facts" so that a decision can be made as wisely as possible. It is not about anything else.



Breastfeeding, on the other hand, for me, was about being CLOSE and connected to my babies, and for sheer convenience, and for the calm feelings it produced in me: a very harried, busy mom. Those are my "data".

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I think it should be cheaper too.

Julianne - posted on 02/06/2011

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I was not trying to harp on formula feeding mothers, its the formula itself. I know plenty of reasons exist to feed formula, but the formula is simply not the best it could be. Its good enough, yes, but formula feeding moms should really push for a better quality formula.

Rebecca - posted on 02/06/2011

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Oh dear.

Julianne - posted on 02/06/2011

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the only snide comment i see is yours.

Sapphire - posted on 02/06/2011

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Peopel get insulted when snide remarks and comments are made with a parenting style that is not your own. A fact is a fact. Kids get sick whether they are breast fed or bottle fed, whether they live in a bubble or exposed to germs, etc. It's the snide remarks from extreme advocates that people are insulted by.

Julianne - posted on 02/06/2011

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it may not have affected YOUR children, doesnt mean it doesnt happen, people often get insulted when facts are presented. Doesn't make it any less a fact.

Kylie - posted on 02/06/2011

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This topic never fails to evoke strong responses in mothers! Including myself.
No mother should be made to feel they have in anyway "comprimised" the health & well-being of their child because of the the method they were fed. I find it a tad insulting that the article insinuates that bottle feeding mothers would not only come from a lesser stereo-type class in society, but it also assumes that it would only be breast-feeding mums whom would go the extra mile to ensure their childs health needs are met, what rubbish!
I have raised 6 healthy children on the bottle who suffer no health issues noted in this article. And yes, I did try, repeatedly with each child to breast feed, even with a dolly parton set of mammories I was unsuccessful. The upset I had from feeling "failed" was purely from societys opinion thrust apon me. For some, their is simply no other choice. Mothers need support, not ridicule.

Mia - posted on 02/06/2011

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Interesting, I only bf son no.1 for 8weeks and in my mother's group the rest did bf, some longer than others. But it made no difference to how the bubbies developed and my boy never got as sick as some of the bf babies. Hey I know a bubby who was exclusively bf who got meningitis, so it doesn't protect them against all they say it does.

It depends on a lot of factors and what is ultimately best for mum and baby, sometimes that does mean formula. Too much pressure is placed on women and i think contributes to feeding dramas and post natal depression. Give it a go, if it doesn't work don't beat yourself up, go the bottle. The kids are no better or worse off for it, at least then you and bub are happy.