â*PHOENIX*â - posted on 10/15/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
I thought this was an interesting article I was sent from a friend….
Made me go hmmm…..really???
There are several articles out there which debate whether all women are naturally bisexual or not. There are several others (especially by women) which mock such claims and reclaim the heterosexuality of the prettier sex. Presented here is a woman’s explanation of the much misunderstood issue.
OK boys, so that caught your attention because you are insecure with the thought (or just a nasty pervert!) and all you girls reading this, it struck a chord dint it? I am not implying that you are a lesbian, but hey… you probably know what I am talking about. If not, read on, you might identify with it.
Women love men, women love women, women LOVE. We are naturally nurturing and giving, and when this couples with the expressive and emotional ease we are gifted, it comes easy to feel affection for people in general. Not every caress has to be sexual with us. Women, well most of them, don’t cringe on kissing or dancing with another woman. In fact it is almost fun! Half the pleasure comes from sharing and exchanging affection and a greater half comes from ticking men off. None will deny the suppressed giggle when men are left feeling insecure and obsolete!
Women understand women better. Straight and simple and true. There is a definite charm in exchanging a knowing wink across the room, and especially over your man; and there is certain amount of warmth in bonding with same sex. There is a sense of freedom too; it’s a nice feeling to not need men, to free ourselves of the masculine charm that we are constantly under. It doesn’t take a scientist’s mind to understand that feminine energies bend towards masculine; it does take opposites to connect and electrify. So non-lesbian women fancying other women is not a denial of their attraction to men, if anything, it’s a confirmation of their want for men!
Women look at other women. This one is simple. Women are good to look at and no one can deny that. Even gay men think the we are beautiful and the woman form is attractive and charming, and the curves sure feel good to touch. Imagine yourself blind folded (all you girls, boys and every one in between) and graze your palm over a woman’s back… start at her neck and graze down a shoulder, feeling the curve of her back, down to the smooth rise and decent towards the thigh… as Stevie Wonder puts it.. Isn’t she lovely!
It is a compliment when someone thinks you are attractive, irrespective of the sex of that someone. And it is only polite that you return the compliment with a similar gesture. So when two women come across as being attracted to each other, it is more than likely that they are just complimenting each other in a way they know each will appreciate. That is not very difficult to digest now, is it? And if you see them taking it any further and kissing, well go read the third paragraph of his article again and you will understand. There is another explanation too; it is called exploring your wild side. There is fantasy and there is reality. And on most days, they don’t meet.