Angela - posted on 07/27/2011 ( 312 moms have responded )
After reading the debate on Baby Fat, I thought about how many of us would get the Mommy Make Over, plastic surgery for the extra skin, boob lift, tummy tuck etc?
Many of my friends have done so. At first I felt really inadequate when I met these Moms and they looked so great after two or three kids, breast feeding and then one day a Mom showed us her boob lift(yeah that was werid) but all of a sudden all these Moms in the group were talking of their surgeries!
I was like now I know why they look so good and i well look normal I suppose.
Do you think their is pressure to look like we never had a baby after we have them? I do esp. if you look at celebs who have babies and then are wearing bikinis and 3 months after birth. But now my friends make me feel pressured too.
I go back and forth on the surgery thing,
Cons it is expensive, I wonder if I really would want to spend the money heck I could go on a real nice vacation, put it towards a retirement home, new car etc...
The other con is I could die, leave my kids and family all for the sake of vanity.
I have not done it yet....but I do sometimes think about it.