Extremely Clingy 18 Month old, Any ideas?

Amy - posted on 05/30/2010 ( 6 moms have responded )

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My son is 18 months old but was born 6 weeks early, He is extremely clingy. He get so emotional that when I'm with him I cannot put him down., and If I do he will just scream and hang on my leg and cry. He isn't like this with anyone else even his dad just me. Any Ideas how to help him and me?

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Jenni - posted on 06/19/2010

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is he in daycare at all? im a single stay at home mum and my daughter was the same with me and i was told she needs to interact with other people more often and it worked

Heidi - posted on 06/06/2010

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He is at an age for separation anxiety that is very typical and object permanence. My daughter is like that some times at daycare and the next day is fine. I will agree that is rough on certain days.

Nicole - posted on 06/06/2010

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He might just miss you then. I used to work at day care (for 10 years ) I suggest not taking to day care. Its stressful for them and to do it when he has a loving grandma to watch him is just silly. Its germ infested and they have a ratio (like 4 toddlers to every 1 adult) so he wont get extra love. It is just a phase try to give him cuddles when you are home and it will pass with age.

Amy - posted on 06/05/2010

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Thank you for the help, He goes to his gramma's house usually 2-3 days a week while I'm at work. He is great when we get there but when I cme to ge him he is immediatly stuck to me and starts crying and gets almost hysterical when I have to put him down.

Tia - posted on 06/02/2010

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My daughter is 16months old, And the same in a way, She will play with other people till I walk out of the room then all hell breaks loose, She is in daycare one day a week, Fair enouf=gh, She cries when I leave but after a while she will eventually stop crying & go play with the other kids, Sometimes You gotta be cruel to be kind, Good luck with it xx

Kit - posted on 05/31/2010

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I went throught that with my second son (now 12 years) as he was very sick as a baby so was constantly by my side. I tried lots of things like leaving him with a firend for an hour or so at a time it was REALLY hard as he was miserable and only seemed to help a little so in the end at almost 2 years old I enrolled him for two mornings a week at a daycare. It took a couple of months for him to stop screaming when I left but after the first few times he was always happy when when I went back to get him and the staff were really good as they are generally trained on how to deal with separation anxieties in children.