Kristian - posted on 06/29/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )
Ok ladies, maybe this is TMI but need to vent and maybe I will feel a little better.
Due August 2nd with our first child. Before pregnancy sex was all the time (few time a day!) even up until about a month ago sex was pretty regular. Slowly over time though his sex drive has completely dropped. However mine is thru the roof!! Now even if we had dropped to once a day it was ok and everyother day wasnt happy about it but was still ok. Well girls now its been a week! This doesnt sit well with me. I know that I am rapidly approaching my due date but I still want the attentoin he used to give me I attempted to start something with him a couple days ago and hes like I just dont feel right with the baby and all. I was so angry and upset because it had been a minute, and I told him the baby has been there all this time so whats going on now. He just said he didnt feel right. I know he is probably scared of hurting the baby but i have told him on many occasions that this is not going to hurt the baby . The dr said sex is ok so what is his problem. I know i could be having issues so much worse but to me its just that serious. I even tryed again this morning before we were leaving for work. he was NOT having it. So of course I felt slightly rejected. Any one else going through this?? I mean really ladies ive gained 19lbs so far so i already and im like wow im big! (well bigger than i usually am ya know) and then when he refuses to touch me other than to rub my belly kinda makes me feel well i guess rejected. Am I crazy??