The Loss Of My Baby

Andrea - posted on 07/27/2010 ( 4 moms have responded )

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It is with a heavy heart that I announce the death of my baby boy. Baby Gavin Michael Harris was born at 19.4 weeks on 7/23/10 at 2:05 am. This was my 5th loss. He weighed 8.30 ounces and was 10 inches long. He survived for one minute and at 2:06 am he took his final breath and passed away. He was the most perfect little person I've ever seen. The cause of my losing him was an incompetant cervix that opened with no warning signs. I've never had cervical issues in the past, which makes this more devastating, not to mention how long and hard I tried for this little baby. I spent 4 days in the hospital and was just released to come home Sunday night. I wish you all well in your pregnancies but I feel I no longer belong to this community. I hope you all deliver healthy happy babies, and maybe someday soon, I will be back to share the news of a new pregnancy and go on to deliver a healthy full term baby.

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Suzi - posted on 12/05/2010

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oh hunni, i'm so sad to read this , there are no words that will even come close to helping, i hope you have lots of support and love around you , i will keep an eye out for your post of a new baby! good luck with everythingb in the future ♥

Charlotte - posted on 10/28/2010

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hi sorry for ur loss i no how u feel i lost my little boy when he was 23 hours old i wad induced 5 days early from my due date i called him Mason. Mason had CDH which is a hole in the diaphgrame so his liver and bowl had been pushed to where is lung should of been squashing it so it was flat..
im not coping very well n iv got to go bk to work tomoz as they have cut my pay n i am now on smp
my work have not been ant help to me what so ever iv told them if im having a bad day can i do office work i work with children so this is gonna b the hardest thing i do but work have said if i have a bad day this will not be acceptable

Amanda - posted on 07/27/2010

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yeah i know that ive never personally went through loss like that, but im sure the mommies on here including me will be here for you like delaney said. its a hard thing to go through, and you are a tough lady to go through this and i wish you all the best!

Delaney - posted on 07/27/2010

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im sorry for your loss, i dont know how it feels to lose a child but there cant be anything worse. if you need us, we will still be here for you.