What's everyone thinking? Boy or Girl or both??

Kellie - posted on 01/23/2012

I was right, we're having another Girl :D yippie!

Kellie - posted on 01/16/2012

I was joking Jamie.



It does make it hard when you feel like you don't or can't connect with your child, especially a same sex child. My Mother Died when I was 15 and I never really had her either as she was a Heroin Addict (my Father too), so because of this lack of a female role model/connection I never wanted a girl, I felt because I wasn't Mothered how could I possibly Mother a little Girl and teach her all the things a girl needs to know when I never got taught?



I am SO glad my LO is a girl because I realise now my fears were unfounded. As the Parent/Adult WE need to make the effort to bond/connect with our children and move past our fears and fears of rejection, don't let your fear/s stop you from connecting with your daughter Jamie, keep trying!



p.s I think being a Daddy's little girl us a right of passage, I am waiting for it!

Nikki - posted on 01/16/2012

My son is 2.5 and he is the farthest thing from a momma's boy, he's all about daddy, because daddy is much more fun then mommy words straight out of his mouth. But what can ya do

Jaime - posted on 01/16/2012

I don't connect with my daughter like most people say they do with their kids. I didn't connect with my mom or grandparents so much either so it's hard for me. I'm hoping things will be different with a little boy. That's all I meant. My daughter doesn't want much to do with me and everything to do with daddy. Sigh.

Kellie - posted on 01/16/2012

Oh PLEASE don't turn him into a Mummy's boy Jamie! It's so challenging for their partners later in life, trust me I know! argh! LOL



I find out next Tuesday, Happy Birthday to me!

Jaime - posted on 01/16/2012

with my first I was pretty sure it was a girl. my husband and I both had this feeling when we first found out that it was a girl. And turns out she was. with this second one, I have hardly any doubt that it's a boy. This pregnancy has been completely and utterly different and I just had a gut feeling it was a boy when I found out. We have the first ultrasound February 13th and we'll find out for sure then. I won't deny it, I want a healthy baby boy and then be done with child-bearing for the rest of my life. Julie is daddy's little girl, I want my momma's boy.

Heather - posted on 01/14/2012

Not really sure what I am having. This is my 4th baby. My first three are all boys. My first two pregnancy's were identical and my third was completely different so I thought he was a girl but at 30 weeks it was confirmed by 3D that he was a boy. This pregnancy is a lot like my first two except the way I am carrying but I still can't predict what this one will be. I have only had girl dreams but that doesn't mean much. For the sake of my older son I hope it is a girl because he wants a sister really bad. We won't know till he/she comes out EDD June 13th. I will have to report back when the baby arrives :)

Nikki - posted on 01/11/2012

SO HAPPY WE ARE HAVING ANOTHER BOY!!!!!!!!! I was pretty sure seeing the pregnancy was identical, no morning sickness, the way i was carrying and whatnot

Tiffany - posted on 01/11/2012

I was hoping and thinking it was a girl and last week it was confirmed we are having a girl!!

Debbie - posted on 01/10/2012

I'm thinking this time, I'm having a boy. My first was a girl. My symptoms are complete opposite as well as cravings and feelings. Besides which, this baby is a trouble maker, it must be a boy, LOL. It would be nice if were a boy, because it will be the first and only boy in the family. Am I trying to convince myself it's a boy? LOL. Well, hopefully we will know for sure tomorrow. ultrasound is tomorrow and we are planning on finding out this time (we didn't with the first). Another opposite. Either way I'm happy, as long as it's as happy, healthy, beautiful, and smart like my Princess!

Cynthia - posted on 01/10/2012

I am having a feeling that this one is a boy and I hope I am right :) I have a little girl already so it would be nice to have one of each. But we have to wait until valentines day to find out what we get... it seems so far away :(

Serena - posted on 12/29/2011

I'm sure it's a boy. I wouldn't mind either way because I have a little girl already.

Krystle - posted on 12/29/2011

Boy!!

Kellie - posted on 12/23/2011

@ Beverly, I just know. I knew I'd have a girl with Rayne even before falling pregnant with her and I feel the same this time round too. Will confirrn at 20 week ultrasound at the end of Jan.

Oh we have a middle name. Maya Abigail :)

Tiffany - posted on 12/23/2011

We are hoping that it is a girl because we have 2 boys already and this will be our last child. But I am going to be happy with either as long as the baby is heathly and happy

Nikki - posted on 12/11/2011

Everyday i think its something else, I was convinced it was a boy bc once again I have no symtoms other then back pain, but then I started getting severe migraines and thought well the pregnancy is different perhaps its a girl. With my first I knew it was a boy, I sooooo desperately wanted a boy, this time round im happy either wauy. Having a boy would be so much easier I wouldnt have to buy anything really, but a girl would be fun eventhough im not girly at all. I was always a tom boy played sports so havign a girl would be completely out of my realm. one more month and we will all know:)

Lynn - posted on 11/23/2011

With my first I thought for sure it was a boy and really wanted a boy and as soon as we could find out we did and it was a boy. This time I'm not sure I kind of think girl just because so far this pregnancy seems way different. But when I dream about the new baby I usually dream that it is a boy. We will be happy with either though I do think it would be nice to have one of each.

Jade - posted on 11/10/2011

For my first, I knew from day 1 it was a boy! Now I feel girl, I don't know why. :)

Beverly - posted on 11/03/2011

Kellie, is that your guess or you know. How do you know already?

Beverly - posted on 11/03/2011

I have 2 boys and would like a little girl now too. This pregnancy has been totally different from my boys so I think maybe its a girl. There is only 1 girl on my husbands side of the family so I am not thinking a girl is likely to happen but we will see.

Rhiannon - posted on 10/29/2011

I'm feeling like it's a girl. i also only can think of girl names, only look at girl clothes, and call Baby Her. And everyone around me thinks girl too.

Sarah - posted on 10/16/2011

Hmmm...I'm not sure this go around! I was thinking 'boy' the whole time when I was pregnant with my 1st & we found out at 21 weeks that it was definitely a boy! I wanted a boy first, so now I really don't care one way or another. :)

I think it would be cool to have two boys, plus I already have tons of boy clothes lol. But, I would love to add a girl to our family, too. So, I don't know!!

At this point, I'm going to guess it's another BOY. We'll see! :)

Starfish - posted on 10/16/2011

With my 7yo, I KNEW, just absolutely KNEW from day one it was a girl.

With this one, it's harder, but I *think* it's another girl. :]

Kellie - posted on 10/15/2011

Girl.

her name is Maya, middle name still to be decided.

Jay - posted on 10/15/2011

Well with my last PG I knew it was a boy from day one! ( And I wanted a boy so I was going for positive thinking too, lol) Anyway, I only looked at boys clothes, I picked a boys name, I called the bump a he all the time, and nephew, grandson...
I didn't find out till I was 8 months along that it was actually a BOY! I was delighted, but of course in the delivery I just wanted healthy baby.....
This time round I am not eager for one sex or another. And sometimes I am patting my belly and talking to my lil girl and other times I am showing my son and saying say hello to little brother?! I have no clue...
I do tend to go more for the girls clothes in the baby shops though...
SO i am going to predict girl, because I seem to be going for pink and girl clothes......
(but maybe its a boy and a girl... :O )