Alison - posted on 02/11/2010 ( 15 moms have responded )
I have 3 children now 13, 6 and 4mths. I never thought I would have 2 let alone 3! But now I have had 2 boys and finally my baby girl my husband and I are considering him having a vasectomy.
We have talked about since falling pregnant with our daughter and the opther day when i rang around and made inquiries I had this little panic attack. All I could think was 'Is this the right thing to do? What if we change our mind and want just one more?'
My kids ages are all spread out and I would have like to have them closer, but life doesn't always work that way and getting pregnant was hard for us. I don't kow if I want to really have another one or it's just me freaking out because it so final.
it's hard to think 'well that's the baby part of my life over!' My husband doesn't get that, but he also is against anymore, yet refuses to actually make inquiries about the vasectomy himself because he is a huge chicken!!
I just don't know what's going on in my head, all logic seems to fail against my hormones, I just keep thinking. I am only 30!! I am not old enough to make these decisions ;-)