anyone thinking of having another baby or has already had another since there nov 2009 baby?

Donna - posted on 03/31/2012

So wanted to give the good news i am now pregnant :) my due date would be the first week of december i have a doctors appt on monday will no more then.

Tina - posted on 03/08/2012

sorry for your loss..

congrats on new pregnancy :)

we lost twins last august cant try till may as it was a molar pregnancy but soo cant wait to try again :)

Jacqueline - posted on 03/07/2012

hi brianna i have a a 28 month old daughter, a 9 month old son and just found out today im pregnant again which was a shock as i was on the pill

Jennifer - posted on 03/01/2012

My kids are 4 yrs apart i think that 4 yr or 3 yrs is good enough apart . My brother and i are 11 yrs apart and we do not get along because of the big age differnce. Good luck hope everything goes great for you .

Kristin - posted on 02/24/2012

We had our first son Oct 19, 2007 then our second Nov. 5, 2009 then finally our youngest and last Nov. 29, 2011. I chose to "get fixed" since all three were csections and way to many complications with this last pregnancy. Funny thing is we didnt plan ANY of them, but we are very happy how close in age they are since my husband has one brother that is 4yrs younger and I am the youngest of three (7yrs older then 4 yrs older) and none of us have as close of a bond as our three.

Donna - posted on 02/05/2012

So im nervous i have bin trying since october of 2010 and now my doctor put me on Cymbalta which is an anxity pill but then he tells me to get folic acid but these pills said somthing about pregnancy can't remember what it said but idk i just want to be pregnant. lol i want another baby :(

Donna - posted on 02/05/2012

So im nervous i have bin trying since october of 2010 and now my doctor put me on Cymbalta which is an anxity pill but then he tells me to get folic acid but these pills said somthing about pregnancy can't remember what it said but idk i just want to be pregnant. lol i want another baby :(

Brianna - posted on 01/31/2012

new community called



Moms of sept 2012 Babies



link to community below



http://www.circleofmoms.com/moms-of-sept...

»-(¯`v´¯)-» Yanira (ñïå) - posted on 01/31/2012

I have an 8mos old daughter and we are thinking about having our second child by the time she turns one... perhaps in the summer. It was difficult for us to conceive and at one point we even stopped trying. Our daughter has given meaning to our life and I can't imagine our life any other way. I expressed my thoughts about having another child, at least two years apart, to some of my friends. One of my friends was all for it... her response: YES!! GO FOR IT! GET IT OVER WITH!! Another response: You shouldn't because kids tend to suffer from attention deficit disorder and you will be to blame. Your child needs all of your attention and while you are caring for your baby your two year old will feel lost! I didn't agree with this statement and perhaps I agreed to disagree. The individual who made the comment is the only girl in her family and although she is 5 years older than me, she is a bit immature. She was the "spoiled" child in her family of five and perhaps it justifies why she would make such a comment. Until this day she has resentment and holds grudges if and when things are not going her way. She has issues stemming from her childhood that I cannot relate with. I am the middle of three children and I don’t suffer from any disorder… in fact I couldn’t care less for attention and couldn’t wait to leave my house to be on my own. This particular individual is awfully selfish and for more reasons than the obvious doesn’t want anyone to “shine” but herself. It’s great to be able to discuss and debate over anything and everything in life but at the end of the day you make your own decision. You should know what’s best for you… considering you are in the right state of mind and competent to keep the safety of your family in your best interests.

Jacqueline - posted on 01/26/2012

I like my children close in age as they have a tight bond my daughter was born 24 nov 09 and my son was born 15 jul 11 my daughter loves her brother to bits and always wants to help with him my partner wants to try for another baby now which will have a 16/17 month gap between my son and next child.

and a big congrats on ur pregnancy :)

Heidi - posted on 01/23/2012

We have an 8 year old girl and an 18 month old girl. We had made no plans to have any more kids. But we are going to have twin girls!! Due June 7th 2012!! :D

Sunshine - posted on 01/23/2012

Congrats on the pregnancy & sorry about the misscarry :(

Shannon - posted on 01/23/2012

My Nov. '09 baby was my third, and I am now expecting number 4 in July. We had talked about it, and agreed that after 2011 we would take the steps to prevent having any more kids; so i guess this one was just meant to be.

There is 15 months between my oldest daughter and my son, then 3 years (almost to the day), between him and his little sister; and she will be 2years and 8 months old when this baby comes along. (Really hoping for a boy). Its nice to have them all close in age, the oldest are very close and when little sis came into the picture, they were able to help. Now this time, big sis will be in school full time, so I dont see her being quiet as into the baby as her brother. But, she could just want to be the 'little mommy' when she is home.

Barb - posted on 01/21/2012

My pumpkin turned 2 years on December 4th.Found I was pregnant 28th of December surprise. We are going to have this baby September 2nd 2012 very excited. There will be 2 years and 9 months between the 2 of them.

Ashley - posted on 01/18/2012

My son Was Born on Dec 23rd of 09, I had miscarriage after miscarriage and Finally Gave birth to my beautiful baby girl on Oct 30th 2011. And although its really soon, im pregnant again. (an accident although a great one) and I am Due sept 23rd. My two are 22 months apart and getting to see how they are together, its amazing my son loves his baby sister soooo much!

T'keyah - posted on 12/08/2011

sorry im sad to hear about the miscarriges! i have a 24mnth old son and im having a lil girl any day now shes due on jan 5th

Donna - posted on 12/02/2011

i am so sorry to hear that brianna hope all is well with you..... Im not pregnant the test said neg and i got my friend yesturday :( i actually cried was pretty sad

Brianna - posted on 12/01/2011

**update** I am no longer pregnant... i miscarried again :(

Donna - posted on 11/29/2011

Lol thats ok it kinda is funny being i put my friend and the fact getting a pee test before i need to get blood work done haha..... Thanks hoping one of them tells me somthing

Brianna - posted on 11/29/2011

sorry donna i ment to press nice but accidently pressed funny andit wont let me undo it lol. good luck with everything :)

Donna - posted on 11/29/2011

So i went to my doc's and she didnt do or say much but more less if i dont get my friend next week then the 12th i go for blood work.........

BUT on friday i am going to take another test and see what it says being i havent taken one for 2 weeks.

Brittany - posted on 11/28/2011

ive had four babies between dec 2007 and may 2011 so Yes you could say we thought about it.!

Somma - posted on 11/25/2011

My son is 3 in January 2012, my daughter just turned 1 in November 2011 and we are expecting #3 in July 2012. Number 3 was unplanned and a massive suprise but a blessing we are only to happy to welcome with open arms

Ashley - posted on 11/25/2011

i had my daughter november 25th 2009 and an currently 30 weeks pregnant with baby number due feb. 1st :)

Courtney - posted on 11/23/2011

My little man will be two on Friday, and we're 26 weeks along with a little girl! Told hubby if we were meant to have 2 kids I wouldn't want them anymore than 2.5 years apart. they'll be about 2 years and 3 months :)

Rachelle - posted on 11/21/2011

My kids weren't born in November but I have a 3 year old a 19 month old and a 9 month old.The two older children are very close and like to play together lots I think they will have a great relationship as the get older. And they seem to have taken on the role of taking care of the baby together like getting him toys, a blanket etc..

Brianna - posted on 11/21/2011

congrats synquis and aisha ive started a new community if u wanna join called July 2012 Babies here the link. hope to see you there :)
http://www.circleofmoms.com/july-2012-ba...

Synquis - posted on 11/21/2011

CONGRATS!!! I had my son on Dec 11, 2009 and I had my baby girl on July 25, 2011. I want more kids but i'm not sure :)

Jodie - posted on 11/18/2011

we;re having baby #2 in May...which puts them just under 2.5 yrs apart. I think it's a great age gap.

Aisha - posted on 11/18/2011

im pregnant to due july 14 2012 this is baby#3 for us and im so excited

Donna - posted on 11/15/2011

Congrats on your baby :)..... im hoping i am pregnant soon i look like i am but who knows im taking a test soon so when i find out ill let you guys know...

Kelly - posted on 11/15/2011

I'm due 29th Feb 2012

Deshree - posted on 11/15/2011

CONGRATS :-)

Daniele - posted on 11/14/2011

Hi! I just started up a group called "Mom's Fair" kind like an online second hand place where you can have your own photo album there with photos of used but in good condition things like clothes,toys,shoes,strollers  from your infant/toddler/kids that you might want to sell to other moms or even exchange. Please join us and invite other moms friends with you to join us as well. Here is the link to the group and thank you so much! http://www.facebook.com/groups/146728462...

Samantha - posted on 11/14/2011

hi since my last post were trying for anotha very soon my implant is being taken out thursday so hopefully i will get caught very soon that would make my kids 2 years 9 munths apart very good age gap oww n congratulations on ur babby xx

Katrina - posted on 11/13/2011

Congrats :) i had my first baby may 2010, fell pregnant almost straight away and had second baby april 2011, which only leaves 10 1/2 month between them. I had alot of pulled faces and funny remarks, but im coping without asking for much help. I just think as soon as u feel ready and happy about it :)

Penny - posted on 11/13/2011

I had my son feb 19th 2010 and my daughter 13th aug 2011. Glad i had them so close. Plan was for closer but it took time lol

Brianna - posted on 11/13/2011

*update* IM PREGNANT!! Due July 24, 2012!

Courtney - posted on 11/12/2011

My brother and I are 2yrs9mths apart which was and still is great. I had my first in dec 2009 and my next in march this year (2011) not my ideal situation having them only 15mths apart but you know what? I wouldn't change it! Alex looks after his little sister even though he's not 2 yet and Abbie looks up to him, crawls around after him and giggles everytime he comes near her.
It was so scary at first but so amazing now

Kacy - posted on 11/12/2011

my son was born in nov.2009

Rayana - posted on 11/09/2011

i have heard the best time to have another baby is about 5 years old... i on the other hand think that the closer the age the better :) but i guess it could go either way because me and my youngest sibling are 12 years apart and we get along so very well :) mabe because we are the only girls of 6 children :)

Elly - posted on 11/07/2011

Yes my husband and I have a 19 month old but we are planning for trying for another this Spring after she truns 2

Geraldine - posted on 11/05/2011

my younges yas born on mothers day 2010

Jeannette - posted on 11/02/2011

My husband and I are going to wait until our son is about 3.5 years to start trying again. So if I got pregnant right away, they would be 4 years 3 months apart. Now, that is kind of to spread apart for my liking, however I can't imagine trying to conceive when my son was 2.5 and having him be three when our next is born. I want my son to be out of diapers first. It just costs to much and I'm hoping to cloth diaper the next baby. Also, right now we are in a 2 bedroom apartment, so we figure we will stay here until either we start trying or until close to the birth of the next baby. I also wanted him to be old enough to go to preschool (at least a couple days a week, if affordable) so I will be able to have one on one time with the new baby and when I have them home together, he will be old enough to understand that I have to breastfeed his sister so I can't play with him. Also (and you probably will think I am nuts) I have decided that the next baby should be born in Feb, March or April. I don't want the second baby too close to my son's birthday, the pressure of having a November birthday is enough, what with buying a Halloween costume beforehand, then Christmas after. And if the baby is born during the hot days of summer, then it will be hard to take my son to the park because newborns should not be out in hot temps. for a great length of time.



I was actually just thinking that maybe we would just have our son and be done. That does sound good to me, especially with not having those infant months again. However, I really want to try for a girl and I do miss the cuddle times since my son does not like to cuddle now. So taking a couple more years to think about it is a good thing.

Rosie - posted on 10/30/2011

i have a 2yeard old he was born feb.26,2009 and i had a lil girl girl right after she was born mach 19,2010. its a lil more hard for me being that my lil girl was born with disabilitys. but my first two where one year apart also and they were more easy to take care of. now i have four and its really hard. i suggest that you space them out a lil so that you can enjoy them and give your body some time to get it self back to normal.

Ginny - posted on 10/28/2011

I have my almost 2 year old 11-20-09 and I got pregnant again when he was 5 months old. So now I have a almost 2 year old Kobe and an almost 1 year old Kelan (1-25-11). To all of you moms out there....I do not suggest doing this. My pregnancy was pretty easy as far as healthy wise goes but I was super irrated alot because It was completly exhausting taking care of a baby and being pregnant. I have a niece who is now 4 and she is such a big helper. I think 2 years apart almost 3 is perfect. Good luck.

BTW I wouldn't change a thing I love my boys but it does get hectic sometimes and now my 2 year old is having problems with his speech and I feel its my fault because i didn't have the quality time to sit with him alone to work with him on it. We are getting there they are 14 months apart and Love love love them to pieces.

Cara - posted on 10/26/2011

I am not having any more, since I already have 5 kids, but for spacing them, I think 2-3 years is a good range, mostly cus changing 2 sets of diapers is not fun and can get expensive! My two oldest are 18 months apart and changing two sets sucked, but they actually potty trained at the same time and that made potty training easier. The middle two are about 2 1/2 years apart and only had to change two sets of diapers for about a half a year, so not so bad. They get along a lot better than I did with my sister (who is almost 6 years older than me) I think keeping the ages close is a great idea, just not TOO close together! (moms need breaks!)

Donna - posted on 10/25/2011

My kids are some what close in age my oldest and middle child are about 2 to 3 years apart and my middle child and youngest are about 1 year apart i had a misscarriage when my youngest was 5 months old back in Feb of 2010.... I am currently trying for number 4 being that my youngest will be 2 years apart.... :)

Tanisha - posted on 10/25/2011

yes i so want another baby i want a son though my daughter will be two november but i want her to have her little bro by the time she is three

Tokasha - posted on 10/24/2011

im pregnant due in 2 weeks my son will be 13 days short of 2 years older