Alexa - posted on 06/25/2010 ( 35 moms have responded )
So the babys father & his family have put putting a ridiculous amount of stress on me which has been causing me to have anxiety attacks all the time. (Denying that the baby is theirs, mid-night phone calls screaming at me for a dna test, seeing me in public and laughing at me... And this is after being very close to his family for the entire year and a half we were together, and all through high school.) The other night I went into preterm labour, (I'm about 20 weeks) I was having contractions. Luckily, the contractions stopped, and baby is okay now. I feel I should cut off contact with the father because he doesnt care if I lose the baby or not and he continues to do nothing to help this stressfull situation and right after i told him about the preterm labour he tried to start a stressful conversation. Would it be bad if I stopped contact? I want to do whats best for my baby but I'm afraid if I stop contact with him he wont want to see the baby in the future. I dont know what to do. Advice?