Stefanie - posted on 04/29/2010 ( 23 moms have responded )
I thought you were supposed to have your baby shower before you have the baby, and all my friends who have had children had theirs before.. But my entire family is SO shocked by this and say thats not how its supposed to be.. that there has to be a baby for people to come see for their to be a baby shower.. but it doesnt really make much sense to wait for things you have registered for until after the baby gets here..
So. were taking alot of heat for wanting to have it early... I dunno if im right and your supposed to have it before or if my family is right for thinking it should be after baby is born?