Stacy - posted on 05/16/2010 ( 12 moms have responded )
i'm sixteen years old, and found out april 2nd, i was pregnant. i am now currently 11 weeks pregnant. the father and i weren't together when we got pregnant, we aren't now, and probably won't ever be. i am set on keeping our child, as he is not, he has screamed, yelled, calmy, rudely, nicely, and meanly, told me to give our child away. but my mind is still set. so i will be doing this alone, knowing he still gets to live his life and do whatever he pleases and he can do it without even taking a second glance back. as for me, my saying now is MY life is over, but OUR as in my baby and i, is just beginning. and i'm really stressed because of him. and i'm so angry at him. but i try not to yell or say mean things about him. but i really just want to slap him, because he's constantly yelling at me, making me feel horrid about myself, and my pregnancy. and it's always his time or no time. but personally i could careless if he's ever there for me. i just want him there for our child. i need his help and i want his help when it comes to raising our baby because i would like for my child to grow up with a daddy, not just a oh well hey that's my father, and i really just can't do it on my own. and i'm having a hard time talking to friends and family, because all they do it bash him and i'm trying to be an adult about this and not do that. any advice on how to deal with these emotions because well i know physically i can't make him stay. so any advice about the father deal would be nice.