C - posted on 05/16/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )
I found out 3 days ago that I am pregnant by my now ex-boyfriend. We agreed previously that neither of us are ready for parenthood, as he complains about his 2 kids that the mother(s) wont let him see. He broke up with me 5 days ago by picking a series of small fights which finally ended with him saying that he doesn't care that I'm pregnant, take my 15% (child support) and stay out of his life! That prompted me to take home pg tests with 2 positive results. I sent him a pic of the test and he asked for results from a Dr. (which i also received). He has made NO effort to contact me since news of the positive results and has made it a point to avoid places we'd bump into each other, yet has been playing on FB constantly.
Is he just in shock or is he really planning to avoid me through the matter?
I don't want to stop him from being in his child's life, but i wont force him either. I don't want child support from him or even a romantic relationship.
He is 41 with 2 kids and behaving like a child going thru it for the first time. Should I expect this behavior to change or start the process to terminate his rights?
What is the process of terminating his parental rights?