SEX DURING PREGNANCY (HATE IT OR LOVE IT)

Shavone - posted on 12/02/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )

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I 6.5 wks pregnant and I have notice that sex is different. It is off the damn hook to be honest. Is it me? what is it that makes it 10 times better. I love it and I hope after the baby is born i can continue to feel this damn good!!

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Katelyn - posted on 12/08/2010

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Im 19 weeks pregnant with my first & to me sex is just awkward. I always end up focusing on my little baby bump pop up & back down lol. Idk if anyone else has experienced this but when I orgasm it seems like my uterus tightens up around the baby & it turns into a hard rock. It worries me and I hate not being able to lay on my stomach. So I cant really enjoy it usually.

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Amanda - posted on 12/17/2010

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My first pregnancy it came and went. This pregnancy, I am already constipated at 9 weeks, so it is just plain uncomfortable most of the time!

Tcaswell84 - posted on 12/17/2010

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well, i have not really enjoyed it during this pregnancy, i cant get off and its just no on my mind... when i do have sex its like a job, i cant wait to deliver so i can go back to my normal high sexdrive and please myself and my husband

Emilie - posted on 12/17/2010

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First 20weeks of my pregnancy, it was awesome. Not Uncomfy, not sore and didnt feel weird, Plus it was great! .. Now that im 30weeks, its uncomfy, a lil sore and just not that great =( always feeling bad for my partner though, as he thinks its him! Which i know its not, coz i had the same prblem in my first pregnancy!!! ... The urge is still there, but not worth the hassle .. Do miss the Closeness it gives in a relationship however and cant wait until i have this buba!

Jannelle - posted on 12/09/2010

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My pregnancy sex life changes. Sometimes I want to go go go and other points I don't want him near me at all. Honestly depends on which part of the pregnancy I am. I don't want to be touched the last couple of months.

Nikki - posted on 12/09/2010

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It is the surge of hormones. Hopefully it will get better and better as you progress. It did for us.

Lorraine - posted on 12/09/2010

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this time around i didn't even whant to think about sex because i had bleeding for the first 3 months, was to scared that i was going to loose this one to & my partner felt the same way. It took a while to relax that everything would be ok so from then we just take it easy not to hard but as i get further into my pregnancy he thinks he could hurt the baby so not much you can do.

Stifler's - posted on 12/07/2010

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love it! except i go through this period of about 3 weeks where i can't orgasm. it happened with my first pregnancy and second.

Brandi - posted on 12/04/2010

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Up until about...a couple months ago and I started to actually get big...Sex was great. Now, at 36 weeks, it's just awkward and uncomfortable. Not to mention, I think it's also a little awkward for my SO. Which is normal but I do miss having that connection.

Sharon - posted on 12/04/2010

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I'm not a fan of it either. Early in this pregnancy I had all day sickness, then as my tummy grows it just gets annoying, and I was wanting to pee all the time too!. Plus, if I feel a kick midway through I kinda get freaked out hahaha. Doesn't bother hubby either cuz he says he feels weird knowing there is a little person in there.
But, sex after pregnancy, now that was much better than before!!

Brianna - posted on 12/02/2010

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when i was pregnant i hated sex. im had really bad morning sickness for all 9 months so i away felt like hell. and when we did have sex i felt like i was gonna pee myself so the whole him i would just think about not peeing lol

Jamie - posted on 12/02/2010

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lol, I wish you the best! Unfortunitly for me, it was just unconvortable and the bigger I got the worse it was. I cant wait till I am not pregnant anymore, and can go back to having great sex,lol

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