So many questions!?

Jessica - posted on 09/14/2010

I really hope that things start to get better for you! Also I wish there was a way for all of us to sleep! Well some how I got my pants on and buttoned today but every time I sit I can feel the pressure on my stomach. I got a belly band from Motherhood...it was the best thing that I have gotten so far. When I am not wearing it to keep my pants up! I pull it up as a tube top for an undershirt for the shirts that are way too revealing! And I understand the smell thing...I can smell everything and it drives me insane and is the only thing that makes me sick these days. Well good luck and I really hope that you start to feel better.

Cara - posted on 09/14/2010

Hello! I'm due feb 10th and this is my 2nd child. I go tomorrow for the 20 wk appointment and the ultrasound is sometime this week or early next. I have had the worst trouble with insomnia this time. I havent been able to wear my regular clothes in a while. My pants still zip but I can't button them. I have had the hardest time with finding maternity shirts. I was some that look nice but not too revealing. I still have trouble with morning sickness so I am on medicine for that otherwise I'd still be "getting sick" every day. Smells are the worst thing right now. Things that would never bother me make me sick now and I hate it. I'm hoping all this gets better soon. I am sooooo glad my pregnancy with my daughter wasn't this bad. lol Hope you feel better soon.

Jessica - posted on 09/12/2010

I totally understand. I went through a miscarriage that ended a relationship. It wasn't the miscarriage itself...I just became extremely depressed, I didn't talk to people, I just stopped being the person i was before. I ended up losing my job and someone that I had thought I cared about! It has been a tough road since then. I have been very nervous about telling ne one...even both of our families. I haven't talked to my son about it yet b/c he is 5 and he REALLY wants a brother or a sister and I don't want to get his hopes up and have them crushed. I have been slowly been relaxing about this pregnancy. I finally felt like it was safe to get the car seat and stroller and the pak n play...which was a really big step for me and was really fun! My partner is extremely excited and has all of these ideas and things he wants...drives me crazy some times. I just want to slow down, take a step back, and breath! i know about sleeping too...I feel like the baby is more on the right side alread and when I lay on my right side it is extremely uncomfortable and feels like I am laying on the baby...eh! I so badly want to sleep on the couch but my bed is so much more comfortable when I do sleep.
I understand wanting a girl since you have a boy! A boy and a girl is just so perfect! I always tell people they are so lucky when they have one boy and one girl...you just can't go wrong. I do want to buy little girl things just b/c there is so much more and it is SO much cuter! but girls in my family don't really seem to get along...I kind of hope for a boy just b/c I am afraid...but I almost want a girl b/c I don't really care that much for the boy name we have and I LOVE the girl name that we have picked out...that and I secretly don't want my partner to have a satisfaction of having a boy...I know it is horrible of me but he wants a boy REALLY bad!
I luckily haven't had ne problems with indigestion...and unfortunatly that doesn't mean that I wont. I feel like I have had everything else so far so I might just end up having problems with that too!

Lorraine - posted on 09/12/2010

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Lorraine - posted on 09/12/2010

Hi i'm due on the 13 feb and this is my second pregnancy but i can't get myself to excited or get anything done yet, because of a previous missed M/C. there's allway's that thought if everything is ok but as time goes bye i think i'm relaxing a bit more now that i had alot of kicks for the first time in one day. I too can't seem to get comfortable either i seem to like my left side better but because my partner faces me when he sleep i can't stand the smell of his smoke breath, lol i find myself sleeping on the couch because of that plus i find for some reason i get nauseous when i sleep on my right side or i'm tossing & turning, so what can i do acept sleep in the most comfortable place. i can't wait till we find out but i'm not rushing because it cost alot every time i have to have a scan, i'm gonna wait till i'm 21 weeks witch will be the 20 week scan but i'm hoping for a girl since i have a boy that's the dream everyone wan't but i will acept what ever it will be. I can't believe i am getting indigestion already it is bad sometimes i didn't think u could get it this early but you take it in. i haven't got any friends who r pregnant either all mine have had there's this year so it's good to talk with others February mum's to.