Jessica - posted on 10/22/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
Alright I am having a really hard time b/c my soon to be MIL has done something that hurt and upset both of us! When he told her that we were having a baby she just answered saying, "well I am not ready to be a grandma!" and she just talked a bunch of crap even after he told her that we had pretty much planned it...we didn't expect it to happen so quickly but I stopped taking my pills and we stopped using condoms and got pregnant that very month! She recently did something that was upsetting and crap for a mother to do to their child and it was all probably so she could hold it over his head and say that she did something first! It is a really long story and I just want to know if in February I still feel the same way if I should tell him that I don't want her to come to the hospital! She really hurt me badly...i didn't care about her saying that she didn't want to be a grandma...she hasn't ever been a good mother and I didn't expect anything differen tfrom her. It is just what she did recently after saying she didn't want to be a grandma and she went out and did something that to me was crappy! I don't want to start a huge fight about it and i wouldn't say ne thing now b/c I could change my mind between now and then. I asked him who we were going to have come to the hospital and he said he didn't want to tell ne one in his family b/c of how his mother has been behaving and his father well they have problems and he doesn't want to tell everyone else and then have his parents show up b/c they found out from someone else...but I don't know that he wont change his mind! I am really having a hard time with this and was wondering what everyone else thought!