Joan - posted on 08/22/2009 ( 2 moms have responded )
My daughter was adopted from my home state after her birth mother had over two years to reunite and then over three years of termination proceedings including appeals, wrongly designated fathers, erroneous birth certificates, etc. Now, six months after probate I find birth mom has a FB page and a page on MySpace designated to "her family/her children" complete with a picture that I sent to her after their final visit. These pages are open to the public of course. I have alerted the social workers and I know that there is not a lot I can do. I won't be sending any more pictures and luckily I am not obligated to that. I know that my daughter still talks about re-connecting with her birth mother when she is 18 but this opens up possibilities that chill me to the bone!
My intent here is to alert other Moms and for support in this matter. Opinions?