My adult daughter has a child, is married to a loser, want to get her out of my house

Harriet - posted on 05/23/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My daughter is 23 (does not work), has a 3 year old son and is expecting a baby girl in about 5 weeks and they live with my husband and myself. She is married to a loser. We recently sold our house and moved into a rental home with an HOA and they are very very STRICT here. I have my husband, myself, my daughter & her son on the lease. Her husband does not work and is a felon and has little prospects for a job. I support my daughter and her child emotionally and financially. She gets food stamps and pays for some food. The husband was away for about 3 weeks and is coming back tomorrow and my daughter thinks he can stay here.My husband and I have had many arguments with her about this and she insists he be allowed to stay here. Where do I go from here? She is NOT this way because she is pregnant, she has always been very obstinate and headstrong and does not obey rules. I really want to kick them out. She was supposed to move to Michigan where his mother and step dad life. They are religious Christians and now say he has to go to a "Teen Challege House" for 1 year. That's not going to happen. They don't want them either. Whats my next step?????

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Harriet - posted on 06/01/2011

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Ann,
I wish I could do that to my daughter but she is pregnant again and due in about 3 weeks. I think I can hold on until she has the next baby but after that I am going to get tough and get them out of my house. They keep talking about getting jobs but there is always an excuse why they can't find one.I feel like moving, changing my cell phone number and disappearing from their lives so that I can have one.You are lucky that your life is you own now and no drama since your daughter left. Sometimes tough love is what needs to be done and they need to bottom out before they can pick themselves up.My daughter is spoiled, as she is my only living child. My 18 year old son passed away 6 yrs. ago in a car crash and life has been like a roller coaster ride of ups & downs. This has affected every aspect of our lives including my daughters' life.
Harriet

Ann - posted on 05/29/2011

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I had to kick my daugter out and it was very ugly. I havent seen my Grandson since. She has cut off all options to get ahold of her. It ws the hardesest thing I have ever done and it is still killing me after two months. But boy is my life quiet now. NO MORE DRAMA!!

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