Alison - posted on 10/13/2010 ( no moms have responded yet )
I lost both parents to cancer what a horrible disease! I lost my mum 26th sept 2009 what i awfull day my heart was broke for two people my mum & dad because my dad was with my mum 47years and he couldnt cope with the loss of mum just as we all couldn`t. Me being the only girl took on the role of caring for dad so i had to be strong for dad i realy don`t feel i have grieved for my mum yet. We knew dad had cancer but was getting treated for it but and we got good news on the 21st aug 2010 dad got the all clear.Yet that good news was taken away from us 4 weeks later wen my dad died 6 days befor my mum anniversary of been gone from us a year. How could this be how can i get through loosing both my parents in one year. I still dont know what the grieving progress is. Don`t get me wrong i have cried many tears but people keep saying they don`t think it has hit me yet. I realy miss them both terrible .