KaSandra - posted on 03/16/2011 ( no moms have responded yet )
we got together in February of 2009 and were very happy in October of 2009 we found out we were pregnant and we were very happy, we were engaged and wanted to be a family.I had our beautiful daughter June 13th,2010 and that was the best day of our lives. However, after i had her our relationship became rocky, we were still in love just fighting. In October of 2010 i moved back in with my parents so we would not fight so much and we could work on our relationship i figured having space would help since we were living in a tiny studio apartment. November 22nd. 2010 i got the wort text and call of my entire life, my daughter dad had crashed his car and passed away. I had talked to him less than 10 minutes before the accident it was almost 2am and he had been drinking. i had taken our daughter to the hospital the night before because she had a fever of 102.8 almost all day. He called me and wanted to come visit us and i knew he had been drinking so i told him to just go to sleep. He didn't listen to me. I'm not sure how to talk to my daughter about it when she gets old enough to hear about it. she is 9 months old now and was 5 months when the accident happened.
I am 18 years old and her dad was 21. I miss him everyday and i know i will always love him.
i just need advise on how to tell her when she is older and how to deal with the sudden loss of the man i pictured myself spending the rest of my life with.