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Wondering how to get past all the hurt and tears?

Amanda - posted on 07/29/2010 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My mom passed away December 14, 2009, almost 8 months ago. I am still crying every day and feel so broken inside. I can't seem to get past all this hurt and sadness. I miss her so much, she was my best friend and such a wonderful person. She was my three children's last living grandmother and was very involved with them, so I hurt for them as well. I find myself daily wanting to call her and tell her stories about the things the kids do or say that she would get a kick of, but I can't. I need to talk to her and get her advise and tell her gossip that we always shared, but I can't. I feel such a loss from my life and I don't know how to get past that, because it will never again be as it was. I seems like every event will always be shadowed with sadness because of her absence. I see other mothers with adult daughters and I am so envious and mad at the same time. Lately I have been day dreaming about going back in time to relive life with her again, silly, I know it is just a fantasy. Any thoughts? Thanks, it does help to get it out to others that might know what I am going through.

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LaMay - posted on 08/14/2010

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Hello Amanda,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I understand your feelings and I can tell you it will get easier. However, I continue to think of my father on a daily basis, so what you are going through is very normal! I believe we just never get over the physical loss. Time does heal your heart take it from me! Focus on the positive and stay focused. Be determened that is what your mom would want! Again, just remeber that what you are going through is completly Normal, I day dream that I have my fathers hand in mine all the time!! Thank you for visiting my sight and god bless you.
With Love,
LaMay

Charlene - posted on 08/08/2010

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I lost my mom on january 31,2009 I was 9 months pregnant, she never got to meet the granddaughter she waited so long for!!! There's no justice in that!! I to still cry alot, it's been 18 months. Some people think that because my daughter was born 13 days after her death, I didn't have the chance to grieve until now, but it's hurt just as much as the first day. She was also my best friend, and I miss having someone I could say anything to and there was not judgement, only love.

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