growning up a mothers tale

haveing grown up with mostly all men, cause my mother was termanly ill was the hardest thing of all , 3 brothers and a dad, i was made to grow up fast and take care of my brothers with my farther Plus looking after my termanliy ill mother at week ends. It gave me strengh, because when mine are older i would not expect them to give me there childhood so how and what did did you learn from your childhood that is set instone and thats postive?