So what do you do when your husband/bf receives a pic text from a girl asking what his oppinion of her new hair cust is?

Elisha - posted on 07/06/2012

Can I just say how cool it is that this conversation is under the GUN TOTIN' MOMMAS board?? I love it!!!! Yeah, I agree, too.... show the broad who's boss!! :D

Erin - posted on 08/22/2009

I know this was posted 8 mos ago, but I would have sent her a picture message of YOU with your gun saying that this is a married man and she needs to ask someone else their opinion on this as this one is TAKEN!

Karen - posted on 05/04/2009

um...wow...that sucks. you know they say when one gets a DUI they have driven like 10 to 100 times drunk and have not been caught....do you see my point here? invite her to dinner. see how they act around one another. sounds like trouble in paradise.

Lacey - posted on 04/28/2009

i'd say it was even worse if they'd been buds for years. guys and girls aren't buds no matter how much they have in common someone is always attracted to the other even if they try to hide it.

Lacey - posted on 04/28/2009

I'd be pissed. how does he know the girl? i'd probally text her myself if he didn't give satisfactory answers. but then a lot of people would say thats obsesive

Jennifer - posted on 04/17/2009

My husband and I almost divorced over a text message. Granted the one he got was well lets just say something that NO woman should send a married man! The only way we were able to work through it was to sit down, talk it out, and getting rid of the text messaging on his plan. I had to idea who this girl was....I guess he knew he from when he was in school, but none the less I was IRATE. Not to mention I was 6 months pregnant when it happened. But make sure to ask who she is before you go off.

Amanda - posted on 03/29/2009

Isn't this Gun Totin Mommas? I would be way upset too. What is she thinking? Does she want a no frills haircut, because I know you want to pull it all out. Maybe you should just text her back and tell her how great you think it is and let her know it is you and not your hubby. Then get some rules set down about things like that with your husband. It will go nowhere but down if it isn't stopped.

Jeanelle - posted on 03/24/2009

OK... I can see how you would get offended or be concerned. but seriously... Its a haircut. At least she didnt ask him if she likes her new bra, am i right? If you have reason to be worried over something this simple, maybe you should take another look at your relationship- just a thought.

Chelle - posted on 03/06/2009

I have to agree with Angela's comment. If they have been buds for years, no biggie. Otherwise check the chick out! 

Angela - posted on 02/27/2009

The only thing that might make me think it is not so much of a big deal is what is the relationship between them before this text picture?...If they've been friends for 15 years and have a brother sister thing...then maybe ok, if she's just someone he knows from around...well yeah, that would perk my interest and have me wondering what her intentions are.

Minnie - posted on 02/23/2009

It is a VERY VERY big deal. No woman has any business asking, let alone texting! your husband asking such personal question. I am sure he would flip too if another guy texted you asking for ur opinion about his biceps or some such thing. If I were you, I would make it clear that this is not acceptable, no matter whether he thinks it's a big deal or not.



Also, check the girl out - she might be trying to woo him. I have dealt with such cases before, and there is no dirth of such parasites.

Krisi - posted on 02/17/2009

Nope, not cool at all!!!

Theresa - posted on 02/14/2009

I agree-disrespected indeed! In my book, that's not something you would ask (let alone text!) another women's husband.

Reina - posted on 02/09/2009

Unless she's related to him...NO WAY! 

No other woman has any business messaging your husband/bf about her hair or anything else.  I'd get a hold of that phone and see how many messages are going back and forth.

Christa - posted on 02/08/2009

I don't know you, him, her or the situatuion. But, whey does she care what HE thinks?? And why does he care what her hair looks like??

Danielle - posted on 01/30/2009

WELL I DON'T THINK IT'S COOL. ANY GIRL THAT ASKS A GUY WHAT HE THINKS OF HER HAIR CUT HAS OTHER MOTIVES. THAT'S HER WAY OF FLIRTING. MAYBE HE THINKS IT'S HARMLESS BUT THAT'S HOW A LOT BAD STUFF CAN START TO HAPPEN